Neomatrix wrote:I was thinking about setting up my own business a few years ago. Freelance software development, website design, etc. I need to look into this soon, actually.
Hi all,
I've been having this pressing urge to go the route that Neo just mentioned for the past few months now, that whole setting up my own business thing, making my own money and living. "The itch" began probably last year, but over the past few months it's bearing down on me to the point where I'm tearing my hair out. I'm finding that I have pretty much no tolerance anymore for "the system" and the normal job route. That's why temping actually suits me to a degree because even though I'm working at regular companies that are all mainstream, temping itself isn't mainstream. You bounce around to different places. A week here, a week there, then a week off, then 3 days here, 1 day there, 3 months here, 2 weeks there.....bounce bounce bounce. Variety and something new, the best that one could hope for while still working "in the system." You just have to make sure your temp company is good and that they are always lining up work for you. Not all temp companies are busy and have work. I've signed on with 4 agencies here where we just moved to.............and only 1 out of the 4 has actually pulled through for me. There's a second one that's trying really hard and have sent me on 2 interviews but the companies or jobs were not to my liking.
I've been really going around and around about this whole thing lately, and I'm wondering what thoughts others here have on the matter. Anybody going through this too, anybody having these thoughts besides me, freeme, Neomatrix and Zonabi? Has anybody here actually done it and been successful? Some thoughts that I've had go back to the idea of polarization. Relocating where we live to be more in tune with our frequencies, changing jobs because we no longer have tolerance for something negative..........................and maybe even trying to find a way out of the traditional work system altogether, which is the direction I'm looking in.
Things I realized I no longer have any tolerance for and refuse to do:
- I will not take a job under the pretense that I'm going to stay there forever or that it's my career. Hell no. I can't pretend. But most employers want to hear that. It's so weird. Yeah, like I'm going to do this for the next 15 years. uh huh.
- Exerting mental and personal energy into a job that's b.s. to begin with and TOTALLY not worth it, so that I have nothing left in me by the time I get home. A job where I'm expected to take it seriously, take my work home with me, stay late, come in on weekends, give it my all, strive for the top, seek advancement and all that game playing illusory nonsense. I can't / won't do this anymore because I see how b.s. most jobs and companies and industries are. Most industries in this country it seems are based on "illusory" concepts with these manufactured positions that really do nothing but push paper. Take a look around at many companies and see which ones are actually *genuinely producing something of value*, versus ones that are based on illusory concepts. Any company that revolves around money basically - stocks & financial investments, mortgages, debt management & consolidation, bankruptcy, loans....just nonsense, and all the jobs they invent for people to do in these illusory paper pushing industries are nonsense as well. I know, I've done those nonsense jobs! Law firms are another HUGE biggie. Most lawsuits are stupid or based on illusory ideals. Homeowners association/Property Management!! MAJOR ILLUSORY CONCEPT.
The trick is to imagine that we're in apocolyptic times, civilization has crumbled, we have no electricity and computers. Now looking around at all the companies out there and all the jobs...........which ones are immediately swept into the gutter because they're no longer relevant or feasable? Which ones are still standing because they provide actual useful services? There goes about 75% of the industries in this country, buh bye, swept aside!
I used to be content to hold down a mindless office "tick tock" day job and to some degree I still can but the ability is fading fast!
I keep joking that "I'm in a crisis!" Anybody else having a tick tock crisis out there???
"Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting "Holy shit ... what a ride!" - Anonymous
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