"pod people" are "happy" following trends and fads and buying toys to distract them from wondering about the big ?s. they don't care about spirituality or helping others. they don't care about making changes in their lives or the lives of others, they only care about what "the government" will do to make things better..."the government" that they "elected".
they cannot conceptualize a way of life where there isn't someone around to hold their hands and tell them what to do and how to do it (government, religion, police, media's talking heads).
they feed the ego and let themselves be fed by it, thinking that they are doing what they are "supposed" to be doing, as "good americans" or as "good xians" or whatever.
they believe that their material possessions are what makes them who they are.
one of the problems i encountered when i tried to do the buddhism thing was the anti-material possession stance.
i now understand that it's not having things that is bad, that its the level of importance that you place on the the material things that is harmful. let's face it; you need to have some things to get by in the world, and i don't see anything wrong with having say, a computer or a digital camera or a car that you want or whatever.
it's when that car (or whatever) becomes more than a thing; its when it becomes a statement of who you (think you) are and a status symbol that the trouble starts.
pretty soon it's not just the car that defines you, it's the way you dress.
or, how someone that owns a car like that "should" dress.
and how a person that drives that car and dresses that way "should" act.
what could a machine or device have to do with your character and your behavior?
who cares what sort of clothes you wear?
it used to be that as a rebellious teenager, you dressed a certain way because you wanted to separate your self from "the herd"
and if you dressed like a punk or goth or whatever, there would be the jocks that would pick on you and beat you up because of your style, especially for having liberty spikes or dressing like a punk or because you skateboarded instead of playing sports.
but now, the kids that have their mohawks and faux-hawks and dress like rock stars, they are the jocks, and the ones that aren't are dressing that way because they want to elicit the hostile response from the so-called "squares" and "norms" and from their parents....just so they can have an oppotunity to say, "i'm an individual with my own style and i don't care what you say!"
the cause and the effect have become reversed. i have a 18 year old niece who thinks that she is an individual because she dyes her hair all kinds of wacky colors and dresses a certain way. but if we went to a mall, and i closed my eyes for a second, she would blend in with all the other individuals with black hair.
it's like satanists. they belong to a group that shouts about how individuality is so much a part of their philosophy, and all the guys and girls dress in black and listen to the same music and watch old movies especially with the marx brothers and cream their black jeans over anything that says "devil" or "satan" or "hell", or laugh their asses off at anything that mocks xianity.
they should just call themselves "anti-christians".
sorry, i went off on a tangent.
"pod people" don't care about spirituality or helping others. they don't care about making changes in their lives or the lives of others, they only care about what "the government" (surrogate parents) is doing to make things better..."the government" that they "elected".
they cannot conceptualize a way of life where there isn't someone around to hold their hands and tell them what to do and how to do it (government, religion, police, media's talking heads).
of course, these are generalized statements. i know some "pod people" that while they may not speak philosophically or ask big ?s, they are still decent people.
and while i don't think it's right, i can understand that there are some people who may want to give their children and their wives/husbands/significant other's things, because maybe they didn't have any things when they were growing up. and now that they have the money for it, they choose to spoil their family.
personally, we didn't have a lot of money growing up, and i still am uncomfortable and unsure of what to do when i do have large sums of money (which isn't very often).
maybe i have a fear of "success", but that's a topic for another time.
as for anyone buying a hummer or SUV...that is completely unnecessary, unless you live in a mountainous area and actually need to have 4WD vehicle. but no one living in an urban or urbanized rural setting could possibly have any intelligent reason why they need a military-type vehicle that seats 17 people to go shopping or to drive the kids to soccer practice or to church.
my parents had a 4 door sedan and a compact car when we were little. and that was enough for me and my brother and sister. we also didn't wear seat belts, but that was the 70s/80s.
and we certainly didn't need dvd players in the car or portable dvd players or video games to keep us amused and distracted. when we went on vaction, we looked out the window. we read. we talked to each other. we played games.
The "what should be" never did exist, but people keep trying to live up to it. There is no "what should be," there is only what is.
-Lenny Bruce