I wonder if...If somebody could so easily convince a group of people to do "wrong" (commit crime or act selfishly at the expense of others), could a person as easily convince a group of people to do good? Would it be harder to convince four people to empty their wallets out for a struggling young couple who is living paycheck to paycheck?
Once, a couple of years ago as an experiment, I approached a lady on the street and offered her $20. She wasn't homeless, but a regular blue-collar worker on her way somewhere. It took me about two minutes to convince her to take it. She was both defensive and suspicious: "Why would you do that?...Is it stolen?...Why give it to me?...Is there a catch?...What do you want?" Finally she took it and thanked me. I shrugged. I wasn't doing it, particularly, to be nice--I just wondered how hard it would be to give away money in a situation where it wasn't being asked for.
Maybe I'll try convincing somebody to do good...Another experiment..."Hey, would you mind helping that old lady across the street?"--"Who? Me?"--"Yeah, you. How about it?"
You can't change a tiger's stripes,
but you can avoid its teeth.