Re: In the state of being drunk...
Alcohol is a horrible drug. It has killed half of my family of origin and nearly took me out as well. I heard an interesting story once, I can't verify it as fact, but supposedly a priest who is skilled in exorcisms always asks before he begins his work : "is there an alcoholic in the house?". I wonder why he would ask that.
Because if he manages to call up the (evil) spirits, the alcho might just drink them.
Edit: I am sorry, in this instance my blind need for a laught caused me to failed to take into concideration the first half of your post.
I am sorry for your loss.
My father and two brothers are also plagued by the curse of alcholism and I've been through some crap because of this.