Sinaptix...thanks for reminding me, but something I didn't expand on enough is that in Lynda's Sabian Symbols book there is a birth chart in the back of the book where you look up your month/date of birth, and it gives you three corresponding Sabian symbols cards that correlate. Archetypes that may define or shape us, as you're talking about. I don't remember what you're birthday is, other than that you're a Leo, I think, (remember how we were all playing around with the Astro.com birthcharts in the NR chat room last summer?
) but to use mine as an example, here's what it says. For November 9th people, not born on a leap year, the corresponding Sabian oracles are Scorpio 16, 17 and 18.
In reading all three, only one of them REALLY stood out for me as being uncannily accurate. That was Scorpio 17. (it's funny too, because I used to consider 17 to be one of my numbers years ago; i used to have an email address with 17 in the user name. how's that for odd!)
So Scorpio 17 says, (and highlighting the parts that are extremely relevant to how my particular life has gone:
A woman, filled with her own spirit, is the father of her own child.
Oracle: This situation may reveal the sense or the reality that you need to be totally self-sufficient at the moment, regardless of those around you and their input into your life. Alternatively, there can be the feeling of having been "left with the baby." It can indicate single parenthood or bringing up the young without outside help. This Symbol can indicate the loss of the males in one's life, such as the husband or father. However, it can also indicate the feeling that one's life is full enough as it is and the path ahead doesn't seem to include the desire or the need to have children. Be wary of isolationist and prohibitive emotions, though. Is there a situation here where others are not being invited to share or be included in your life? How are you coping iwht the more complicated tasks and chores that you have to get on with in life? Try to remember to include others respectfully, however. Although we are all blessed with our own unique and individual qualities, it is often the combination of ourselves with others that helps to create greater balance and depth in life.
Keywords: Single parenthood. Being proud of one's individuality. Feeling capable of anything. Spiritual experiences that fill one with one's own spirit. Self reliance. The lack of a father figure. In vitro fertilization. The complications of adoption. Self-sufficiency.
The Caution: Uncompromising feminism or chauvinism. Feeling like one has to be responsible for everything. Unrealistic independence. Being left alone and abandoned. Having no one to turn to for support. Being an adult before one's time.
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If "The Caution" doesn't summarize my life than I don't know what does.
My own (crazy) mom even admitted to me years after the fact "You were thrown to the wolves!" Helping to raise my little brother, getting kicked out while still in high school, etc. and so on. How my favorite phrase by the time I was 19 was, "It's just me myself and me in this world, you can't rely on anybody." But to clarify - I did have my dad in my life until I was 16, and he was very much there, taking care of the family. (which is why I turned out okay in life.) It was only after that that he was gone, out of the picture, and from that point forward he wasn't able to be the dad that I needed, unfortunately. I really wanted a dad in my life at that point, but it wasn't possible with him being 3,000 miles away and all. Not his fault, it's just how life went. Then later losing my brother, fulfills the whole "losing the males in one's life" aspect of it all.
And also how I've decided not to have kids myself. Another part of it that was uncannily accurate! (I knew when I was a kid though that I wouldn't be having kids.) Also I've always been a very "do it myself" independent type. I've had to learn how to ask for help from others versus just trying to do it all myself. So more accuracies.
But the way that the birth cards are supposed to show possible archetypes of our life paths is very interesting and ties into what you were saying Sinaptix. If you want, remind me what your birth month/day is and I'll look it up in the book for you. (or email me if you don't want it on the forum. carissaconti@yahoo.com)
"Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting "Holy shit ... what a ride!" - Anonymous
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