oavada... if you understand that you attract your life experiences... and you're encountering women of this distasteful sort... have you considered that it's your own "feminine" aspect on the rise in you, and your male-dominant energies are reacting? It's happening inside you (have fears risen lately?) and in your denial or rejection of fears inside, you've created reflections outside you (women you hate), to help you see what you're doing to yourself.
Feeling your feelings in a true way isn't really as horrible as you fear... let go and allow them to rise. You'll feel much better. Or... continue to be angry and reject feminine after feminine energetic until you find one (anger, perhaps) that feels good and stick with it. (tongue-in-cheek a bit here) Be prepared, though, to connect with an external feminine who has lots of repressed emotions and anger issues too, if this is your choice (as you've lately seen, in fact).
Mankind has been masculine dominant energetically for a very long time here. The mind, the ego, false beliefs, etc. are all part of this "masculine dominance". It is not a gender bias, I'm referring to energetic forces here. With a "masculine dominance" however, comes an equally "repressed feminine". In all who exhibit masculine dominance, you will find feminine repression. In all who exhibit feminine repression, you will find masculine dominance. And... in all who exhibit feminine dominance, you will find masculine repression. And vice versa. Each person, regardless of biological gender, has both masculine and feminine energies. So do you see? There's balance, always. A lopsided balance, but a balance nonetheless. Free up your feminine energies that are in repression and you will free your masculine as well. The new you will literally encounter new types of women, who better match your newly balanced energies. It's all about you.
The polarity spoken of in this thread is a program, a template of energy dynamic, a boilerplate that you can plop your energy into without resistance and live as if it's who you are. Or not.
All that said, you seem quite "sided" in your masculine aspect at the moment, and are "in battle" with the feminine aspect... which suggests your own feminine energies (lower emotional center feelings, namely FEAR) are a target for your hatred, dislike, disgust, whatever word you choose. Rather than working with them, you've chosen to fight them. That being the case, your emotional energy likely only has permission to express within small confines defined by the dominant masculine template here: anger, control, false sweetness, manipulation, etc.
Look around, there's tons of that on this planet. You're in a position to make a difference... but the choice to add to the cacophony is always available too, of course. Do you realize, however, that you have a choice? And that you're making it with your statements in this thread? It's a perfectly acceptable choice to make, albeit painful, but do realize you're always free to choose anew?
Choosing to fall in line with "the foreign installation", as it's sometimes called, suffices for a while, but it will get old. You have an opportunity here... to choose differently. Will you take it?
"The most important decision you have to make is whether you live in a hostile or friendly universe."
~ Albert Einstein
The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes, but in having new eyes. ~Marcel Proust
The evolution of humanity is an evolution of the heart. The path is through the heart.
