My fiance and her succubi

I doubt you'll get many replies on this board, as that kind of thing really isn't our focus here.  Sounds to me like you might have an Otherkin on your hands.

I guess the million dollar question is - why would you stay with somebody that has this many issues?   Nobody makes us do anything, so, have you stopped to consider why you're voluntarily with - and planning to marry - somebody like this in the first place?   (And that's saying that you're not pulling the forum's leg and making this whole thing up just to see what sort of reaction you'll get.    ) 

I always wonder about that - people who have the awareness of the "off" and "dark" stuff that's attached to their partners...and yet they're with them anyway, despite the fact that there's a whole world of people out there to be with.   So that's what I'm actually curious about after reading this thread!

Yeah Lyra, my friend has told me many times he thinks his house has a poltergiest. So last time I visited him, I had just done some reading on Pendulum Dowsing and the ability to rid entities/attachments (Raymon Grace book linked from montalk) so I mentioned I knew of techniques to do so, and he flipped 180 degrees and said he "Likes the poltergiest and the energy" and doesnt want to "mess with it"!!! He has repeatedly shown his frustration at "not finding things" that this poltergiest supposedly moved, and so on.

I never said what techniques I learned, that it's just a pendulum along with personal Intent. Just the mention of actually DOING something about clearing this crap out triggered this response, and the subject was dropped. I'm thinking now it's entities or attachments to him, because I've read real poltergiests are few and far between, his house doesn't give off a particular vibe, but my friend certianly shows signs of something "off".

So now I'm wondering about my friendship to him as well, if he doesn't want to help himself theres nothing I can do about it, Free will ya know.

It was just so surreal, because I've always wondered/suspected something was going on with this person.

The answer to me is very obvious: he loves her and wants to help her.

Maybe...but we'll let him answer for himself if he'd like.  I have my own theories about why people will often times stay with dark and troubled/demonically shadowed and influenced people.  Co-dependence.   Not believing they can find anybody better.  Staying with somebody out of habit because it's easier than being single again and starting over with a new partner.  Being a "fixer" who has a need to always "put humpty dumpty back together again."  Etc.  Etc.  And then there's what Free_Your_Mind's post mentioned, which filled in the rest of the nuances of these set ups better than I could...actually secretly digging the dark and negative stuff.   So true "love" isn't always the reason.  But I couldn't help it though, my first honest reaction after reading the opening post was "And you're still with this chick because........?!......?!?!"   Seriously though...wow.   "Love" sounds like a noble reason, if that's indeed Jetto Funk's reason, but why stay with a troubled person who's knowingly demonically possessed - and who likes being possessed on top of it?

See, that's the issue that nobody here has addressed yet.  Maybe because it will come across as sounding "judgmental" and "critical," I don't know.  I don't think it's either, I think it's just a smart point to mention. What happens to the person who's in a long term relationship with a demonically possessed person?    Having long term sex with a demonically possessed person....what does this do over time? These are valid questions, and somebody needs to point it out.  I don't have definitive answers myself...but I know it can't be good or healthy for the other person and their energy/etheric/auras/whatever it is, etc.  Case in point:  Jetto Funk already admitted this:

He was completely drained out of energy...and that's the price he paid.  But why does this price have to be paid in the first place when there's a world of non-demonically possessed women to be having sex with instead?

See, the energy draining and other issues won't just stop with sex.  It'll be there all the time.  I've been around energy vampires and sex wasn't even required for the energy drain.  Just being in their proximity was good enough.   And I've heard stories of people who were partners with low FRV crazy women and whose health went to pot as a result.   The changes can be drastic, or gradually worsen over a long period of time.  But in the end, there's going to be that "price to pay" in more ways then one, and not just when it comes to sex.   

Does "love" make it worth it?  If a person thinks "Yes, it does!" then the only thing I would ask is, at least stop and question whether you're truly "in love" with the person, or just with them for the reasons mentioned earlier.

Well, there's a big difference between someone "having problems" and what Jetto Funk described here in this thread.  I really don't understand at all the attitude of people who stay with severely messed up people to this level, and just marginalize it as "having problems."  I don't know if you're just kind of playing around and not being serious, but if you were actually serious, then all I can say is it's that exact shoulder shrugging, "it's not a big deal, oh well" attitude that gets people into so much trouble.  They're naive, and don't understand how detrimental it is to be hooked up with people like this.  And not just in love/sex relationships, but in any sort of relationship, from friendship, family members, psychotic work environments and crazy negative roommates.  All of them - bad news.   If you want to make progress in this life, it's going to be 10 times harder if you've got people like that all around you.  You won't be getting very far.  Think - gerbil in a wheel.  !   I've seen so many supposedly "aware" truth seekers who were partnered up with completely messed up and/or incompatible partners.....getting dragged down.  And it wasn't for love.  It was for the reasons I mentioned earlier in this thread.  That's where I got those ideas from.  (Not self help books, in case anybody was wondering.  haha)  But it was from watching people over the years - friends, acquaintances, co-workers, message board buddies - and my own experience.   But it made me so incredibly frustrated to watch.  Jetto is a guy, but it's the same situation, just reverse the genders.   Sometimes people need to learn the hard way from first hand experienced I guess.   

Anyway, just my Friday night 2 cents on this FULL moon, not NEW moon as Tom Paine pointed out to me in the other thread.   

Not going to say anything to the contrary. You were right, it was a dumb answer, one I threw into the wind on naive impulse, especially since I know of a similar situation that ended in failure: my emotionally abusive selfish father (my mother can see some things and once saw red open eyes hovering above his while he slept) leeching off my selfless mother. Despite my mother's attempts to help him in various non-spiritual ways, nothing worked. I helped give her the confidence to escape in 2005 (long story I won't get into) and left with her.