Oh I get it now... 
Thanks,
Interesting... i have been getting some very clear and direct "telepathic" contacts lately, and it is filled with, founded on a deep unconditional love feeling.
however as a personal relationship develops the history/conditioning and condtions come into play. Another layer.
I often find if a lady is interested in me she visits me in obe and checks out "my energy" during dreamtime. usually i don't mention it.
If i do sometimes they are surprised or incredulous. Not consciously ready for that.
It seems that when the minds become close because of intimate communications and life history details shared, it is almost inevitable, this "spirit" contact.
It also supports the observation that we truly are not separate in any meaningful way, sharing energy/ mind source. But we must have some "personal" vibrational signature or resonance and this is imprinted in our words, written or spoken. Perhaps this is what allows one mind to "find another" that have never met and have only shared words or understanding. Geographical distance is no impediment in my experience, another proof that reletive space/time is a holgraphic representation within the greater truth of no time/no distance.
Since i am pretty isolated in a rural area right now, i do a large part of my communing over the net, and this aspect has become crucial in sorting things out, fairly quickly.
In one case: i was invited to, and visited someone recently in obe and sensed someone was with her, things progressed on that plane and problems arose due to my lack of experience in this, and my sensual impulses (ahem) meeting her abuse traumas. I then had "regular" dreams that outlined the whole situation very clearly, in symbols i could easily interpret, explaining things.
She and i remembered almost everything that happened in the astral, in waking state the next day.
She broke off electronic communicatin abruptly, but i felt her/a presence again that night, very strongly and some words were exchanged, i had the impression it was "her freind" speaking as an intermediary for her, and woke to the very strong feeling of a ghost "sitting on me", uncomfortably. i asked it to leave and it did immediately.
We talked the next day, and she didn't remember anything, and told me she and her recently passed father usually spend dreamtime together harmoniously!
So it all made perfect sense.
These episodes of meeting people either new friends or old, in obe, are getting longer and more real each time, though not very often.
There is a new connection now, (You might be able to guess not involving words or meetings, but the strongest energy i have ever felt in a sutained way. Very close, very loving and inspiring, though so far no romance indicated, just sharing "the resources" .
"Quite an amazing look at the human psyche... Magic is". Indeed!
