Synchronicity

Thanks for  the link!

Yes, awareness "reminded you".... and Grace delivered your evidence.

If I told you stories of the profoundness of synchronicity you would see that "awareness" is the awakening, but Grace is a loving force that leads us on our journey.  Grace is Quality. You can become awakened to see that it exists in everything. From the moment of the awakening until your death it will be revealed at greater and greater depth. You could call this the clarity that Neo developed.

"Love thy enemy as thy self"

Thanks much!! I read it as if I had written it.  Life is so wonderful when you find such a synchronistic match of thinking patterns.

"The periwinkle dress"

33 years ago I met a woman; a special woman who captured my inner self. We met on rather synchronistic conditions. We were together the night her grandfather died. I felt a presence that night but did not say a thing to her about it. She asked me to stay with her that night and I did. We slept together in our undies, like best friends, not as lovers.

I knew this woman had a path to travel, and I didn't want to dissappoint her later in life because of my ideals to live a simple and serving lifestyle. I felt she deserved the American Dream and all the frills. This she has had with another man. We parted 31 1/2 years ago as friends--wishing each other the best.

Through another profound series of synchronicities I found her again. We have fallen in love at the point we left off; again, not lovers, but as "best friends". We email each day. My wife is fully aware that I still love this woman. She trusts that I am an honorable man that would not cross the line drawn by my conscience. This woman and I have had a constant series of synchronicities now for the past three months.

Yesterday she sent me a picture; an heirloom her 84 year old mother had given her as a birthday present. The picture was from her kindergarten year in grade school. She was wearing a frilly periwinkle blue dress and pigtails, that was given to her by her grandfather, the one I believe was present with us the night he died.

When this woman came out to visit me in March I gave her a present: a periwinle tea pot. Periwinkle has become the joke between us because we have had numerous synchronicities with this color.

One of the questions that lead me to finding her was based on the synchronicities regarding that night we first slept together. I wanted to know if she felt the presence. I wanted to know about this grandfather of hers.

Synchronicity has brought us back together as friends. We are like twin souls connected in time. She asked months ago, "How did you find me?".

I said, "I found you in my heart, after all these years."  I told her the reasons why we needed to journey apart. Our series of synchroniciites links back 15 years before we met.

"If you truly love someone, can you give them up for their best interests--knowing it is surely in your worst?"
~~carefulcarpenter

Thanks for the responses. From an empirical perspective alone, event frequency and profoundness increases with awareness. I believe we can learn to observe these with regularity. And, amazingly, I have predicted them in a general form, and have documented responses, a few times.
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Why Does Synchronicity Happen: various sources

Synchronicity reveals the meaningful connections between the subjective and objective world. Jung

Synchronistic events provide an immediate religious experience as a direct encounter with the compensatory patterning of events in nature as a whole, both inwardly and outwardly. Jung.

These events serve to nurture -support, protect and enhance- human life and spiritual growth. Peck. 1978. The Road Less Traveled.

It is unfathomable power [the fingers of the Morai (fate), or the providence of God] ordering the web of our inner and outer existence. Greene. 1984. The Astrology of Fate.

The First Insight Theory: Mysterious coincidences cause the reconsideration of the inherent mystery that surrounds our individual lives on this planet. Redfield. 1993. The Celestine Prophecy

They demonstrate the unity of psyche and matter, forcing us to transcend our rational, scientific, materialistic attitudes. Mansfield, 1995. Synchronicity, Science, and Soul-making.
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Definition of Grace

From Peck, M.S. 1978.

Phenomena that:

a) serve to nurture -support, protect and enhance- human life and spiritual growth;

b) whose mechanism of their action is either incompletely understandable (as in the case of physical resistance and dreams) or totally obscure (as in the case of paranormal phenomena) according to the principle of natural law as interpreted by current scientific thinking;

c) whose occurrence is frequent, routine, commonplace and essentially universal among humanity; and

d) whose mode of origin, although potential influenced by human consciousness, is outside of conscious will and beyond the process of conscious decision-making.

In other words, miracles.

Synchronicity is creation, a small bit at a time. Universal laws, those physical as well as psychic, are manifest in small bits like "quanta".  The mind of the absolute permiates this realm as consciousness. Consciousness changes; more a from of movement than time. Time itself is an illusion. Think of a stack of DVDs and you in a dream: through movement, your perception of your world is expressed like time, but not really. Synchronicity may be the collision of one layer(dimension) with another of vaste similarity, yet minor difference based on the collective. The individual may perceive these minor creations (transcendent movements) through synchronicity, and of course, the advanced perception from the subtle appreciation of Quality. which is in essence is the ability to perceive small changes in position. Those who look from a perspective of superiority and self-justification would not develop an interest in a paradigm that would challenge their position and status; thus are resistant to change.

In a world were we are indoctrimnated to believe that the wisest and most intelligent people are at the top, one may not deduce the spaces in the ladder as they climb upward. Those appreciative of detail and the immense beauty in the small things in life may not be overwhelmed with the grander cultural paradigms and may notice minor changes in the quantum field.

The system of control is supported by those who desire to control. Others with simpler visions of the essential qualities of life may be seeking the holes in the fabric of time and space.

"Blinded by self-importance.... the visionaries of society haven't the vision of a blind musician, nor the perception of a churchmouse_"
~~carefulcarpenter