1 (edited by lyra 2006-06-06 07:41:00)

Topic: Resist the Click

Okay...so there's this running joke between NR poster Once & Future and myself regarding "resisting the click."  O&F came up with it, and it pertains to resisting the urge to click on all those internet gossip news blogs and stories.  My excuse has been "I'm bored, so I click!"  And we've tried off and on to stop, but inevitably, we seem to cave back in.

Well, no more!

Last night was the final straw for me....not just for silly gossip stuff, but ALL NEWS.  That's it, I'm done.   NO MORE MEDIA.

We already don't own a TV here on this end, don't read the newspaper and I personally don't listen to the radio.  So I'm 3/4 of the way there.  The final hurdle has been the internet.  And when you're bored at work with spare time to kill between long stretches of no work with the phone not ringing, then hopping online and going through all the standby internet news and junk sites is practically a given.

Well, no more!  That's it!!

It seems silly but the final straw for me was the big gasp! shocking! "scandal" that Paul McCartney's soon to be ex, Heather, posed for "explicit sex photos!" in a "hardcore German sex book!"....like, ten years before she ever met Paul, back when she was a model.  They're holding her up to the light, with a big TSK TSK!  Shame shame!  You're so scandalous and naughty!  You should be embarassed and shamed!

I read the story with all that it was implying and my head whirled back, like HUH??   Wait a minute......let me get this straight here.......on the one hand the media is force feeding us SEX SEX SEX at every turn.....presenting it as titalating and tantalizing, even sexing up 12 and 13 year olds and using sex to sell everything from shampoo to alcohol.   On the other hand, they turn around and attempt to shamefully crucify those embroiled in what THEY deem to be "sex scandals!" and tell us that it's embarassing and shameful.

Talk about mixed signals.  What an understatement.  So yeah, that didn't sit too well with me last night, at all.  I'm tired of it.  I'm tired of the media, I'm tired of the way "the powers that be" (TPTB) have used it for decades to program people, and do so by using "conflict conditioning" - telling the public that something (in this case sex) is good, then slapping people's hands, saying it's evil.  I know this is old hat to most NR'ers.......I "intellectually" knew it until last night, but something about that story was the straw that broke the camel's back for me.  It was like 31 years of seeing the deliberate, schizophrenic, mindf*** mixed messages of the media just made me snap inside.  That, and I'm just tired of seeing the media getting into everybody's lives, judging everybody.

For myself, I'm resisting the click....for ALL media, from here on out.  That's it.  I'll check my emails, run my website and do the occasional post at NR, but NO MORE NEWS, of ANY kind.  And if this is throwing out babies with bathwater.....then let those babies fly.

There's so much to be said about the news and media anyway, more than just this starting post.  But I'll leave that for additional posts.  This is just to put the idea out there of media boycotting.   For me, it goes hand in hand with the internal changes that seem to be growing more pronounced with every passing month.  Not being able to tolerate mundane fake conversation full of filler lingo.  Being unable and unwilling to commit myself to working for any company permanently long term (and instead just temping forever).  The illusory folly of movies has also been nagging at me for about two weeks.  We only watch "good" movies, usually ones that are meaningful and intelligent in some way, mostly pertaining to concepts talked about here at NR.  But even that is nagging at me.  It's still distraction and escapism. I've also had the idea about "bread and circuses" in my head since reading a quote about that recently. The idea that "TPTB" see us as a herd that needs to be managed with bread and circuses makes me want to run as far from the herd as possible.

So if I can do the media thing, then I can make other productive changes as well.  it's the first step towards eliminating the last of the society ball and chain issues that are keeping me tethered to the herd in some way.

"Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting "Holy shit ... what a ride!"  - Anonymous
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that's nice to hear Lyra - hope things work out the way you want ...

what you say about the media - for you it's resisting the click - well - i know i've said on here before that i still watch television - it's been cut off a lot more lately - but just a couple of days ago - on the airplane of all places (i had the television monitor in front of my seat turned off for most of the flight), but at one point, i just turned it on - i couldn't resist the click ... and i caught this news about these people who were caught in toronto trying to terrorize up the scene with some schemes to blow shit up - CSIS had been tracking them for long time apparently - anyways - it's the same thing all over again - spreading fear - and all the whatiffs - then i caught CNN (a chanel i swore i'd never watch again - but it happened) - and the spin they were giving off this situaiton - it is so ... foolish - short-sighted - and i guess it had an impact on me - even though my head is on straight - it just made me sad that how people are willingly or maybe without really knowing what they're doing, spreading more and more fear and not looking for any real, long term solutions to the actual problems - the real issues that lie beyond the 'surface of things') ...

anyways - a lot crappy ass media out there - 2 much of it - i don't want any of it either - in any form

... checking out the mirror of relationship ...

3 (edited by lyra 2006-06-06 07:35:24)

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Hi oceanchild.....I hope so too!  For me, I realized awhile ago that I'm not going to be able to move beyond and get any further with things if I'm still partaking in media consumption.  It's a bit contradictory when you think about it.   And I've tried several times before to do this, but I think this will be it.  Something is different now, there's "pressure" being put on.  Things are changing/progressing every few months and others feel it too.  It's like drifting so far out into left field that the gap is getting wider and wider between where I'm at and where the mainstream world is, and to keep engaging in aspects of that world is to stretch myself thin over, well, a very wide gap, that soon will no longer have a bridge!   big_smile  I don't know how else to put it.  But others are experiencing it as well, because it's come up on this forum, and I was just talking to a NR member on the phone about it two nights ago, and it came up in discussion on the NR chat room thing.  So, here's the call to arms.  Turning our backs on the crazy mainstream world.  Media is one of the last major hurdles for me.  Maybe others feel that they're at a breaking point too, and would want to join in on a collective anti-media movement.

"Resist the Click!" would be the name of this anti-media movement, pertaining to not only computer mouse clicking, but TV remote controls, radio on/off buttons, and so on.

"Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting "Holy shit ... what a ride!"  - Anonymous
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"I get by with a little help from my (higher density) friends."
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i share that sense you describe of the difference between you and 'mainstream' world - i think i left that place some time ago as well to be honest - so there is a gap in that sense for me too - no doubt that there'd be people on NR who share that - but i still interact with society, probably so do all of us - for me personally - i just don't partake in so many things i guess ...

it's funny - it kind of hit me all of sudden - resisting the click - we're talking about breaking a habit, right ?

it's that word 'resistence' that gets me a little when i think about it ...

is it really possible to get rid of a habit through resistence ? in the sense that there's this pattern i've created for myself in something i do - and i want to free of that pattern - so i resist when the urge comes up ? i think it is possible to break a pattern this way - BUT - does this method - through resistance - create another pattern in itself ? i mean, do i condition myself in another way in order to de-condition the first thing i wanted to get rid of ? and what about the energy that i'm using to resist ?

ya - it's a little difficult to verbalize ... maybe it's a lot simpler than what i'm trying to say - i don't know - i guess what i'm trying to say is that i think understanding how habits are formed - the whole process - because to me, it seems that there's a common link to how all habits are formed  - i think understanding that in itself is important, not necessarily trying to break a certain habit or pattern - i think if you understand how a habit is formed - maybe that itself is what allows you to stop other habits from forming and sets you free ...

this kind of stuff is great to experiment with and see what works and what doesn't - that's the only way to find out what's true

... checking out the mirror of relationship ...

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and what's this about an NR chat room thingie ??? where ? (i'll look around and see if i can find it)

... checking out the mirror of relationship ...

6 (edited by lyra 2006-06-06 09:10:14)

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oceanchild wrote:

it's funny - it kind of hit me all of sudden - resisting the click - we're talking about breaking a habit, right ?

it's that word 'resistence' that gets me a little when i think about it ...

is it really possible to get rid of a habit through resistence ? in the sense that there's this pattern i've created for myself in something i do - and i want to free of that pattern - so i resist when the urge comes up ? i think it is possible to break a pattern this way - BUT - does this method - through resistance - create another pattern in itself ? i mean, do i condition myself in another way in order to de-condition the first thing i wanted to get rid of ? and what about the energy that i'm using to resist ?

Resist may not actually be the best word....for me, there won't be resistance involved in the sense of a tug-of-war, trying to repress bad habits.   Instead, I have a repulsion that's naturally driving me away from old bad habits.

And with regards to habits....it's a matter of figuring out how those habits formed in the first place.  In the case of excessive internet news site/gossip blog consumption, it was born directly out of boredom, with lack of something else to fill the time.  The computer and internet are right there, in front of me....next thing you know, bad habit is formed.

So the trick is to fill that empty space with other activities.  Bring a book, work on my writing/web site, and so on.  There won't be a tug-of-war, or that whole trying to repress or "resist" stuff as long as I make a concerted effort to better occupy my spare time.  smile 

I still like the phrase "Resist the Click!" though.  big_smile  It's cute, and catchy. 

oceanchild wrote:

and what's this about an NR chat room thingie ??? where ? (i'll look around and see if i can find it)

Why, right here....check it out:

http://forum.noblerealms.org/viewtopic.php?id=3457

So far there hasn't been too many people involved - montalk, Risen, kljsadllksjlksdlj whatever his name is big_smile big_smile me, and pinkyrylq.  Most people here probably still don't know about it.

"Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting "Holy shit ... what a ride!"  - Anonymous
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"I get by with a little help from my (higher density) friends."
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actually - i think 'resist the click' is a nice catchy phrase as well - i was gonna mention it earlier but anyways - thanks for the linkage to the chat thingie ! - now i gotta read the instructions and figure it out ...

... checking out the mirror of relationship ...

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Seems to me, its more a matter of what links one clicks on and what sites one goes to.  Shielding ones self from the world doesnt necessarily make it go away, obviously.  Plus there are some truths to be gained from many links.

I agree though, even on sites I visit there are lot of "gossipy" links.  Just a matter of having more foresight into what it is I'm clicking on.  If I stumble across a smelly page, whoops, just hit the back button.

Hey if it wasnt for news sites like rense.com et al, I wouldn't have known about several things that would directly affect me.  Such as Codex Alimentarius.

This is no time for the righteous
Only the wicked survive
Bake up a batch of the Yellow Cake
Bake up a batch of the lies
- - - - -[ Yellow Cake - Ministry - Rio Grande Blood (2006)

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lyra wrote:

I read the story with all that it was implying and my head whirled back, like HUH??   Wait a minute......let me get this straight here.......on the one hand the media is force feeding us SEX SEX SEX at every turn.....presenting it as titalating and tantalizing, even sexing up 12 and 13 year olds and using sex to sell everything from shampoo to alcohol.   On the other hand, they turn around and attempt to shamefully crucify those embroiled in what THEY deem to be "sex scandals!" and tell us that it's embarassing and shameful.

In the root it is the old trick of divide and conquer.

Bye, Pictus

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What being programmed into people from one angle, is the notion of the need for social control and the self policing idea of entrapment for breaking the laws laid down by the elite. Also guilt and the notion that only criminals and deviants would do certain things.
Its all based on and rooted in the highest forms of hypocrsiy.
From all the dirty cracks in our society are emerging all manner of people who are letting their inner nazi out with the support of a very sick media and peer system that get more debased every day.
IN effect what is happening is that the masses, mostly in america have become totally minionized thru the greatest mass mind control device ever conceived of, the TV.
Why do people watch TV? Or are they really people?
They certainly appear not to be.
Just about any hollywood film made is pure trash anymore with the same old repeating themes we have seen too many times. Images of violence and killing mostly. Why?
Why do people want to see this kind of thing ? Why is it ok to sanction this kind of so called entertainment? Pornography is just another kind of virtuality that opens a window for energy sucking to happen. Its all energy games, parroting, and puppeting.
Quite juvenile.

StarCat

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Meh. The media sucks anyways.

12 (edited by Lakme 2006-06-07 04:55:58)

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Great post, Lyra.

Television's main job is to "program" (brainwash) and distract us.  As News Anchor Howard Beale said about television in the 1970's film "Network:"  "We're in the boredom killing business, man."

I made a conscious decision to basically turn off television, and also to stop reading mainstream newspapers and magazines some time ago.  I haven't entirely 100% given them up, though...not YET, anyway  My current job requires me to be aware of what's being written about in the mainstream media as it applies to the field I'm in, but luckily, I can just scan clips of those papers compiled by the press people to read what I need to know. 

I do use TV to watch DVDs and VHS Tapes, but by and large the thing is off and UNPLUGGED.  I read somewhere (maybe on this forum) that you should even unplug it, since "they" were capable of sending ELF waves or something through it, even if it was turned off.

I also decided some time back to stop regularly visiting "alternative news" sites such as Rense, Alex, Icke, and all the rest...I just couldn't do it on a daily basis anymore.  It just got to be too much.  Oh, and let me tell you, for a period of time there, I was obsesssed with those sites, and I never missed a day visiting them.  And rarely, if ever, did I go to bed at nite without Alex Jones on!  Ever.  And it went all through the night (as many of you know).

I finally heeded the advice of others in here who were pretty much saying and feeling the same way that I was about those sites after a while, and just stepped back, and stopped going to them on a daily basis.  I just couldn't take one more dire scenario, one more doom and gloom article. 

I don't for one minute diminish the role of these sites and all of the articles by the fine writers featured on them, in my own awakening.  But I found myself too enmeshed in all of it after a bit.  Really enmeshed.  While I  think it's an absolutely necessary step in the process, I now recognize that leaving them behind is another necessary, if not easy, step.

Now I do visit them on ocassion, and I don't think that I will entirely give them up, as Lyra intimates she may do in her excellent post.  But I realize that I basically know what I need to know, and one more story about the horrors TPTB are inflicting on this earth and its people is not going to necessarily uplift me spiritually, which is more and more the information/readings I find myself drawn to now.   

As far as "resisting the click"...I'm 95% there with TV and mainstream print and probably 75% there overall.  But it's getting easier and easier.  When I'm in an airport and CNN is blasting from every nook and cranny, I find myself "running for cover" and trying to escape!  It's almost impossibe to do.  Then you see how clearly they're pushing the various PTB agendas, with their fake, plastic looking talking heads fostering more fear and ignorance with their bird flu hysteria, AIDS hoax, the latest antics of Tom, Paris, their NWO model couple Brad and Jolie, and bla bla bla. 

No thanks.  Not interested.  Good riddance.

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Cool. I never owned a TV. But that's no matter, I've always lived with ppl and there's been TVs all over. I've watched very little TV in the last 4 yrs with a couple odd exceptions. The funniest part about this, is people will stop me from working, to tell me about TV commercials. Stop what you're doing, stop thinking, drop everything let me regurgitate my programming on to you. People call me on the phone to tell me about the TV I'm missing. It's weird, like you're not allowed to say no thanks I'm not interested, people come out of the woodwork to say no, come with me I have to show you this. And now on the inet people sending messages to go look at endless timewasting clips on youtube or any of the many sites like it. And then they expect you to get all excited and think it's the greatest thing ever just like them, and then they can even get upset or mad at you when you don't react right and want some kind of explanation or apology why you didn't laugh or react to whatever like they did.

I do think it's fine to watch some stuff occasionally for comedy. A sense of humor and laughter is a good thing and if I didn't take time out to laugh occasionally I would have probably killed myself (hmm had a few close calls before). Sometimes I wonder though,  if it's worth it sticking around. I feel so alien and out of place to everything. I can't even communicate hardly with anyone any more... Some days it seems like a futile exercise in frustration.

I like sitting around reading NR and stuff people link to from here. I must be a slow reader anyways. Always seems like it takes me twice as long to read something as it does everyone else. Hm I'm starting to over-think this post so I'll just let it go as it is..

14 (edited by Natural Mystic 2006-06-06 19:10:19)

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Lakme wrote:

Then you see how clearly they're pushing the various PTB agendas, with their fake, plastic looking talking heads fostering more fear and ignorance with their bird fly hysteria, AIDS hoax, the latest antics of Tom, Paris, their NWO model couple Brad and Jolie, and bla bla bla. 

No thanks.  Not interested.  Good riddance.

Yea, you're right.  No thank you!

Fortunately, I've unplugged my T.V and am in the process of giving it away!  I can't remember the last time I've watched it actually.  Oh, it was probably watching hockey, because I've always enjoyed watching Montreal play, but even watching hockey was annoying because of the commercials and the stupid advertisments on the boards!  Tim Hortons and all the rest of them. Its a perfect technique for TPB, while everyone is watching the puck, the advertisement go directly into your subconscious!

It seems though, like a little bit of media is poping up when in not at home.  Either at work (radio) or getting groceries!  That is the worst, while waiting in line to pay they have to bombard every lineup with fake plastic magazins promoting sex and consumerism.

Tom Cruise?  I don't care!  Brad and Angelina!  I still don't care! smile

But I 'know' about it.. and that is the sad part! LoL.  Oh well.  We can only do our best to do what we want, rather than what they want.

"Beyond the stars a new world awaits me now" - Wintersun

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Isn't it silly (insiduous, actually) how you can make a pointed effort to ignore all this tripe, and it still manages to make it's way to your attention?  Sort of the "communal unconscious" thing.  I too was once obsessed with the whole alt-news clique (Rense, etc.), and it seems it's just more fear-mongering dressed in progressive clothing.  But I am a sucker for archaeological/scientific discovery articles, as well as being a professed rigorousintuition junkie.  But I think I can live with that :-)

Hey!  This self-actualization stuff is great!  Now if I could just quit smoking...