Re: Reading People

lyra wrote:

"Excuse me miss....are you lost?" 

I stopped in my tracks.  It was like running into a wall of goodness.  That's the only way to put it.  This guy emanated positive vibes like I'd never felt, like rays were beaming off of him or something.

My wife has a story almost exactly like that one.  Once, in Chicago, when she was in a really crappy mood, she told me this black guy walks from around a corner singing a happy church hymn at the top of his voice and beaming with positivity.  I mean, she said this guy's aura felt like it was 12 feet wide and made out of pink cotton candy.  I don't remember what he said to her, but walked a little with her and told her how good life was and when they parted ways my wife was COMPLETELY out of her funk and felt like dancing. 

She came home glowing.  I mean, I noticed she was glowingly happy when she walked in the door.

Angels?  "Gods' Gladiators?"  4D STO on a visit?  Ripe STO candidates?

Hmmm....

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I do think reading people (aside from the specific physical clue stuff) is mostly psychic however it's rationalized.  And OPs or plug-ins simply can't do it like those who strive for inner silence.  I sometimes limit who I share my observations with because too many times I've been hit with, "How could you know that?  I think that's in your head." 

Sometimes, of course, it is in your head, and sometimes you've shared with somebody who can't discriminate between their own mental static and other peoples'.

You can't change a tiger's stripes,
but you can avoid its teeth.

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dreamosis wrote:

....and when they parted ways my wife was COMPLETELY out of her funk and felt like dancing. 

She came home glowing.  I mean, I noticed she was glowingly happy when she walked in the door.

Same here!   When I got back to where I was living at the time, I was glowing too, and practically walking on air.   "Magic's" vibe did more than just temporarily make me feel better for five seconds, it was like it transformed me for the next couple of days.  Took awhile for it to wear off.  I thought about him for a long time afterwards, and even wanted to go back up to L.A. to see if I could find him again, that's how incredible his vibe was.  But I knew that finding Magic in a city with over 10 million people is impossible.  (Actually...technically it's not, if you have the skillz, you can hunt down anybody and rearrange reality to make sure you'll cross paths.  I've had both happen in fact, but, stories for another thread I guess.) 



dreamosis wrote:

Angels?  "Gods' Gladiators?"  4D STO on a visit?  Ripe STO candidates?

Hmmm....

That's what I'm thinking.  smile   

But can you imagine if there were millions of people like that in this reality??   Just merely being there, crossing paths with everybody else, would be enough to transform the people around them.   Then imagine what would happen!

And that's what I always wind up wondering when I think about this subject long enough....why aren't there more people like this among us??   Why can't there be more??

"Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting "Holy shit ... what a ride!"  - Anonymous
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Re: Reading People

lyra wrote:

And that's what I always wind up wondering when I think about this subject long enough....why aren't there more people like this among us??   Why can't there be more??

Maybe it's time we became the people we wish we could meet.   The quote comes to mind "don't be who you thought you were, be who you wish you were".

Imagine trying to be those walking, talking, angels in 3D...what a concept...

19 (edited by SednaSphere 2006-04-23 13:53:40)

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One time I was leaving a  get together in SoCal and it was late and there
was a very heavy box in the trunk. It was my parent's car, and they put the box in
there. I made a u turn to get onto the freeway, and the box must have slipped and
caused me to veer further and faster than the turn I made. I crashed into the curb,
slamming quite hard into the steering wheel, and came to a stop by the side of the
road. I sat there in shock, not knowing what to do, in the middle of the night with a
damaged car and no one in sight, by the side of the freeway.Then I prayed for aid and assistance. I got out of the car
when I found myself crying, and stumbled forward towards the corner. I planned to
walk until I found a phone. Instead, a family of Armenian people who radiated kindness were sitting there in their car. The driver got out. He said he'd seen the whole thing and would drive me home. I said it was far, and he said that was okay.
I just knew they were very good people. I cried in gratitude, because I knew if they
hadn't shown, I'd possibly have been in great danger. It was a totally unfamiliar area, and I couldn't have remembered how to get back to the location of the get together. It was a rare one time visit to family I didn't know too well, and it really
hadn't gone that great, for reasons I'll not get into here.

So they drove me home. I did feel like they were
angels. They showed up at just the right moment. It was amazing. I knew immediately that they were okay, too. They treated me more like family than
anyone I'd seen earlier! Sometimes I wonder if they were really a family of people as they appeared. I suspect not. They seemed to have materialized out of nowhere, almost.

So if it's not reading people, it's reading what appears to be people. But I couldn't really say what my method was...it was simply a knowing.

20 (edited by Lemniscate 2006-04-22 08:34:40)

Re: Reading People

whywhywhy wrote:

On a different note, I just realized I have just a few friends................I wonder why that is?

Regards,

Lee

Years ago, when I was just a little boy, my mom sat me on the bed and told me, "Rick, when you grow up, you won't have many friends. You'll have a lot of acquaintances, but you'll have only one, maybe two if you're really lucky, genuine friends."

You can imagine what was going through a little boy's head after hearing that! His mom telling him he won't have many friends!

Years later I understood what she was talking about. And she was right. It's amazing how many people say that they have many "friends", when in fact they're just acquaintances, or, worse yet, just using them. That concept intensified when people found out that I could work on computers . . . and more competently than the overpriced "professional" shops. E v e r y b o d y  was my "friend" . . . until I started charging. Rats from a sinking ship they were...

I had an opportunity when I was in highschool to start studying graphology (handwriting analysis). I initially thought it was bunk, but soon delved into its intricacies as I realized its potential to not only learn about other people, but myself as well.

To this day I have a buddy who refuses to handwrite me notes (it's not as if I don't know him well enough already...). A long time friend of the family has me analyze her boyfriends' handwriting, and it's spot-on everytime. I got into a habit of analyzing coworkers' handwriting in order to improve relationships and communications. It even allowed me to get to know one of my true friends even better. And it's assisted me ever since a bad experience a few years back taught me that not only was I not a good judge of character (humbling experience), but there are people out there who are very deceitful and untrustworthy. I've since tried to develop my intuitive skills, as Lee mentioned.

H e y . . . what would be nice is if each person on the forum would be able to post in his/her own individual handwriting . . .

Magis Amica Veritas

I would rather control myself, than someone else.

en courage (heart)
in spire (spirit)
en thuse (theos)

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On the topic of friends.. well, my best friend is my brother.  After that.. hmmmm.. I have this guy I occasionally hang out with (we just met this school year) and thats about it.

I used to have "best friends" but those relationships never lasted.  I had three of them actually, and one of them we were really good friends.. and now we don't "vibe" at all anymore.  This has happened more and more since I've begun researching "different" ideas. 

The awesome thing is when I go play hockey outside, kids come out and play... hopefully meaning I am returning to my childlike imagination! I hope! smile

As for reading people, my experience at work is to simply observe and be calm/silent... then you will "know" (if the other person is lying/happy/sad etc.) through subtle feelings.

"Beyond the stars a new world awaits me now" - Wintersun

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Lemniscate wrote:

H e y . . . what would be nice is if each person on the forum would be able to post in his/her own individual handwriting . . .

Lemmni,

If I submit my handwriting you may not be able to understand what I wrote.  It is like chicken scratches!  Terrible!  Hehehehe...............

Regards,

Lee

Natural Mystic wrote:

As for reading people, my experience at work is to simply observe and be calm/silent... then you will "know" (if the other person is lying/happy/sad etc.) through subtle feelings.

NM,

That is a vey savy thing to do.  Be silent and observe, it is also quite entertaining!

Regards,

Lee

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whywhywhy wrote:

Lemmni,

If I submit my handwriting you may not be able to understand what I wrote.  It is like chicken scratches!  Terrible!  Hehehehe...............

Regards,

Lee

That usually denotes a history of poultry in your ancestry . . . (just kidding!)

You wouldn't believe how many people have told me the exact same thing. Actually, I don't read "what" people write, I read "how" they wrote it. "Chicken scratches" denote character. What you want to avoid is a person who writes as if they used a ruler (but they didn't) . . . the letters are in a perfectly straight line.

People who write "uphill" are usually optimistic, people who write "downhill" are usually pessimistic.

Magis Amica Veritas

I would rather control myself, than someone else.

en courage (heart)
in spire (spirit)
en thuse (theos)

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ARE YOU A GOOD JUDGE OF CHARACTER?  TRY THIS.


BY LOOKING AT A PICTURE OF A PERSON, YOU HAVE TO DECIDE IF HE IS
A PROGRAM LANGUAGE INVENTOR OR A SERIAL KILLER.
GO WITH YOUR GUT FEELING

http://www.malevole.com/mv/misc/killerquiz/

It is of prime importance to recognize that just about everything we've been taught to expect as "normal" in our lives is the stuff of fairy tales and unrealistic dreams.
Theodore Isaac Rubin M.D.

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Lemniscate wrote:

H e y . . . what would be nice is if each person on the forum would be able to post in his/her own individual handwriting . . .

http://www.thethoughts.co.uk/images/handwriting.jpg



Let me know what you think.  And don't worry, I won't get upset or offended regardless of what you say...(otherwise I wouldn't have posted big_smile )

Cheers...

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XzenTriCo wrote:

ARE YOU A GOOD JUDGE OF CHARACTER?  TRY THIS.


BY LOOKING AT A PICTURE OF A PERSON, YOU HAVE TO DECIDE IF HE IS
A PROGRAM LANGUAGE INVENTOR OR A SERIAL KILLER.
GO WITH YOUR GUT FEELING

http://www.malevole.com/mv/misc/killerquiz/

I score 8 of 10 but it felt more like a history test than anything else.

Regards,

Lee

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Marcus wrote:

Let me know what you think.  And don't worry, I won't get upset or offended regardless of what you say...(otherwise I wouldn't have posted big_smile )

Cheers...

Note: I did respond to Marcus, but privately. I tend to treat the subject of handwriting analysis with confidentiality. I'll leave it up to him as to whether or not he wants to post the results.

BTW, Marcus and his wife are wonderful people!

Magis Amica Veritas

I would rather control myself, than someone else.

en courage (heart)
in spire (spirit)
en thuse (theos)