Topic: Common Logical Fallacies & Tactics used on Message Boards
Okay, here it is, The Compilation. In the spirit of Dreamosis' "Red Flags of Mis/Disinformation" and "How to Read People" threads, here is the compilation of the most common logical fallacies and manipulative tactics used by people when attempting to debate on a forum. Many of these are ones that I have personally experienced...multiple times.....so long time posters will probably recognize specific instances within certain items. But it isn't just me, these things happen to others. And the purpose of this thread is to prevent it from happening anymore.....although it would have been nice to have this list like, oh say, a year and a half ago.
From here on out, in the event that somebody engages in any of the below referenced tactics, people can just post a link to this thread and be all "Excuse me, um, Item #5, thank you..."
or whatever. And then move on! Think about it............it could seriously save a lot of arguing time and energy. Instead of using up time and energy in trying to point out a person's illogical fallacies and manipulative tactics, just point them to the list which says it all.
Enjoy. And if you can think of any others, feel free to add to the pile.
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1. Red Herring. Throwing out a lot of side tracking diversion nonsense designed to confuse and befuddle and lead the opponent astray. Think of it as a "spin off argument." This is probably one of the most common fallacies that people do, the inability to stay on point, where they keep side tracking wildly onto irrelevant spin off topics.
2. Straw Man. Rather than addressing the topic at hand, a person builds up a side argument diversion, then proceeds to tear down the side argument instead of the actual real argument, then triumphantly declares themselves the victor. ??! You haven't won anything when you've failed to address the main points at hand.
3. Putting words in people's mouths. Self explanatory. Insinuating or flat out saying that somebody has said or written something they haven't. On a related note is...
4. Making assumptions/Putting words in mouth. Just because somebody doesn’t mention something doesn’t mean they’re not aware of it. Just because a poster/author/famous person/etc. criticizes X, Y & Z, doesn’t mean that they’re not also aware of A, B & C which might be just as bad. So be careful not to put words in people's mouths by making assumptions about what they do or don't believe solely based on the fact that they haven't mentioned something.
5. Twisting stuff around / taking something out of context / quoting out of context. Can be done accidentally, out of misunderstanding...but when it’s done deliberately, to frame the other person’s argument in a negative light and to make yourself look better, then it’s manipulative.
6. Confusing the idea of "not considering" something...with not accepting it. You can't say that somebody is refusing to consider something just because they won’t agree with you. Chances are, they have considered it…and still don’t agree or accept it. !
7. "Just because your head's up your ass....!" The fallacy that should anybody even so much as point out that there are people in this world who seem empty, like puppets and robots, (some use the term "OP" ) that they’re promoting "hatred", "division", "prejudice", etc. "Don’t you know….we're ALL ONE!" We're "ALL ONE", sure...but it doesn’t mean we’re all wired the same way, playing with the same set of tools, and going in the same direction. And most importantly...just because people would notice that some are empty and robotic doesn't mean they "hate" them, or wish ill will or harm on them. It's okay to notice when something or someone is acting off. Conclusion: Just because your head’s up your ass doesn’t mean the sun don’t shine.
Or, another way to put it: Don’t blame the theory for its misapplication.
8. Lack of proof isn’t proof to the contrary. This one is commonly employed by the skeptics. If your proof isn't anything that can be given over a messageboard, well, too bad, looks like your theory/belief is invalid! Ties into ignoring people’s personal proof. Those who do that typically are the same people who tend to keep raising the bar higher and higher, until eventually it’s so high, nothing will suffice as proof.
9. Those who can’t disentangle themselves from their own sacred cows and personal biases. "Aliens are good!" "Hey, I’m Jewish, so I don’t want to hear anything about Zionism or Israel..." etc. When the facts are the facts, take heed.
10. Mr. and Mrs. Sensitive Top Popper. On a related note are those who get easily offended and insulted, the hyper sensitive and emotional top poppers who get enraged over "politically incorrect" statements...even if they do have validity. Relates to a later point in this list about whether you're reacting to the facts at hand...or just the "tone" of the post? Are you able to get past your own emotionalism and neutrally look at the facts being presented?
11. On a smaller note is the idea of "nitpicking semantics." When people feel the need to whip out the dictionary and post a definition of a word, usually in a snide or sarcastic way. Nitpicker. Noun. Someone who would engage in the act of picking apart a word under the guise of trying to clarify, when in actuality it’s usually to be snide and annoying and sometimes derail the conversation off track. !
When conversation gets personal......
12. Appeal to Others. "...And I’m sure many others around here feel the same way..." and so on. Always speak for yourself. Don’t hide behind imaginary people. If you have something to say, say it, and stand on your own two feet.
13. Picking a fight...then turning around and playing innocent. Or even worse, playing the victim. Don’t pick a fight with someone or "bait" someone if you can’t handle the response. On a related note:
14. Picking a fight, then running away and bailing out. Those who make false accusations against another poster, and when that poster attempts to show how it’s a misrepresentation or flat out lie, they're told to things like, "You have to have the last word!" or "Let it go...Let it gooooooo....." instead of addressing the issue, as an adult. If you’re going to make an accusation against another poster, you better be prepared to back up your claims, and see the argument through to the finish line. Don’t chicken out, cop out, or run away, or try to turn things around on the person, when you're the one who started the fighting in the first place. Telling somebody to "let it gooooo!" or "You just have to have the last word!" is immature, and a diversion. I just wonder if these people would feel the same way were the tables turned, and were they being misrepresented or lied about.
Could they just "let it goooo!" ? Methinks no.
15. Personal insults that have no relevance whatsoever to the topic at hand. ie, those who won’t argue the points at hand and instead, side track onto personal insults. Could be bad feelings and a grudge held over from another thread, or, just not liking somebody in general. Either way, it’s completely irrelevant stuff. If you can’t separate out the personal dislike from the argument, then you probably shouldn’t be arguing.
16. Baiting/Stalking. When posters don't have the nerve to directly challenge somebody, so instead, they reference them indirectly, or in the case of what happened to me recently, I had a snippet of an email posted on the forum and portrayed out of context, which "baited" me to come on and address the email, post the FULL excerpt, and give the full back story to what was said and why. Then there's stalking, when one poster follows another around from thread to thread to thread, quoting them repeatedly and/or trying to "draw them out," especially when it's been made clear that they're being ignored.
17. Being unable to differentiate between the perceived "tone" of somebody’s post and the facts at hand. Are you arguing their points.....or just reacting to the perceived tone of their post? Which one is it?
18. People who take things personally that have nothing to do with them. They can’t seem to tell the difference between somebody stating an opinion...that again, has nothing to do with them...versus their own sensitive ego that feels the need to internalize the opinion and then lash out to defend themselves and this imagined "bruising" that took place.
19. When off-the-forum nonsense spills over onto the forum. Sometimes, unbeknownst to the other people who post, there's a reason for somebody "going after" somebody on the forum...side gossip and fighting spilling over onto the forum. Poster A goes after Poster B with a baiting or provocative comment, resulting in Poster B responding with a lot more "gusto" than the comment seems to warrant...then other posters think, "Gee, Poster B sure is a (bitch, jerk, a bit testy!)" ....not realizing that Poster B has had run ins off the forum with Poster A. Oh, the drama. Point being, often times there’s more to a situation then initially meets the eye. Things are not always what they seem to be. Also, it's unfortunate when people take an off-forum grudge and use it as the basis of going after someone on the forum. It's deceiving to the other forum members who have no idea what in the frickity frack is happening here.
20. Candy & Daggers. Over complimenting on one hand, with a mix of underhanded insults thrown in. Like smiling with a clenched jaw, or stabbing someone, but with a smile.
21. Related to this is when posters single out other posters to heap all sorts of lavish, ass-kissing praise on them......to the point of totally going overboard. It's suspicious to begin with, and usually embarrassing to the poster who's the target in the "positive" spotlight, but it also fosters resentment in the other posters who read about how wonderful and marvelous and awesome and super duper stupendifabulous that other poster supposedly is. In the worst case scenario, that poster getting lavished with heaps of overboard praise usually winds up getting crucified later on....sometimes by the very same people who were lavishly over complimenting them! If not by them, then by the other posters who've been building up their resentment.
22. There’s a BIG difference between quoting somebody in order to expand the conversation in a normal way, versus honing in on them to single them out. Certain posters seem to get this more than others. But when ten people are saying the same thing, yet, one particular poster gets singled out of the bunch to quote and get chewed out for it, then "something is amiss."
23. And this one is personal, and I'm going to say it here because I've had at least half a dozen people use this one on me, and I'm tired of it: Don’t confuse the fact that I will argue you til I’m blue in the face when you’re wrong or misrepresenting me, putting words in my mouth or flat out lying about me, with this whole BS about "Lyra can’t handle anybody who disagrees with her." People disagree with me every day, people post opinions that differ from mine every day on this forum, in every category, but who in their right mind would waste time going after each and every person that disagrees with their point of view?! But too often, the "not so bright" posters will pull this one out of their butts and wave it around. Again, I’ll argue you til the cows come home…….when you’re lying about me, or misrepresenting something or using logical fallacies left and right in your "argument", and side tracking things. But don’t be a dumbass and confuse that with me not being able to "handle" somebody disagreeing with me.
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