61 (edited by lyra 2005-12-03 10:48:35)

Re: An open letter to David Icke.

Neomatrix wrote:

Thanks to PhoenixRising for his words over on the David Icke forum, and for correcting the wrong assumption as to author of the material.

Last time I checked, I was a she.  wink

(That's what Jen was responding to in her little flame to me earlier.)



Neomatrix wrote:

And here we have a perfect opportunity, Jen and Lyra, to show how mature WE are on this forum. Right? We can spend countless posts getting into a flame war, or we can let it go, then think about what has been said in the comfort and privacy of our own minds, and reach a conclusion about the validity of it all cool.

Indeed.  !   What was strange to me is that Jen has directed a couple of recent comments to me that were friendly...then she throws this one out there.   I was left scratching my head, going, What the...?? I mean, hello.  Inconsistant anybody?  Passive aggressive?   

And I did think about what a flame war would entail...it would be nasty, because I would get ugly, and very personal, and it would just be ugly, there's no other word for it.   And I do know better.   It doesn't make me feel "good", but, I do have the capability.  It's like possessing an unpleasant weapon of sorts.  Like having a gun, loaded with verbal / written bullets.  But yet, the point needed to be made - Putting the ball back in her court to double check....is this what you want?  Think about it....is this what you really want?   Talk about stirring up the hornets nest!   Unlike hornets, with people you can get a chance for reconsideration.   Also, unlike hornets, people have email.   And I wholeheartedly offer up mine, which can be found by clicking on my name.

"Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting "Holy shit ... what a ride!"  - Anonymous
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Re: An open letter to David Icke.

lyra wrote:

Last time I checked, I was a she.  wink

(That's what Jen was responding to in her little flame to me earlier.)

Well, shit. I didn't know it was you! Thanks for the correction, though.

So, you're a guy, and I'm the editor of the Montalk website. Nothing wrong with a bit of role play now and again, eh? wink

lyra wrote:

Indeed.  !   What was strange to me is that Jen has directed a couple of recent comments to me that were friendly...then she throws this one out there.   I was left scratching my head, going, What the...?? I mean, hello.  Inconsistant anybody?  Passive aggressive?

Well, maybe. Who knows? Doesn't really matter if she is or not. Just makes a difference to you in how you deal with what was said. If you don't agree with it, then you're not threatened by the possibility of it being a potential truth, therefore you might just as well ignore it.

lyra wrote:

And I did think about what a flame war would entail...it would be nasty, because I would get ugly, and very personal, and it would just be ugly, there's no other word for it.   And I do know better.   It doesn't make me feel "good", but, I do have the capability.  It's like possessing an unpleasant weapon of sorts.  Like having a gun, loaded with verbal / written bullets.  But yet, the point needed to be made - Putting the ball back in her court to double check....is this what you want?  Think about it....is this what you really want?   Talk about stirring up the hornets nest!   Unlike hornets, with people you can get a chance for reconsideration.   Also, unlike hornets, people have email.   And I wholeheartedly offer up mine, which can be found by clicking on my name.

Well, good! Because I was just going to suggest that you take it to e-mail if you really want to "have at ye" with each other. Maybe you have some negative energy bottled up that you need to release, and having a good argument often works wonders for that smile Otherwise such heated debate will just make you feel like shit.

"Fear is the great barrier to human growth. Unknowns create fears. When these Unknowns become Knowns the fears diminish and disappear, and we are able to cope with whatever confronts us." - Robert A. Monroe

Re: An open letter to David Icke.

Jen wrote:

and I'm not starting a flame war,

You sho' is, woman.   Why?

1.  Because you jumped into a conversation that had nothing to do with you, and (attempted) to insult a poster that wasn't talking to you, out of nowhere.

2.  "Out of nowhere" because your previous one or two posts directed towards me in other threads were what could be considered "friendly."   So it's inconsistant, and out of nowhere, and wasn't warranted.



Jen wrote:

I would imagine there are others here who agree with me that you need to get over yourself, but I doubt they'd want to say so.

But they haven't said anything.  So until they do, speak for yourself.  Implying that others *might* feel a certain way doesn't make your case.   Right now, you're responsible for your own words, thoughts, and posts.  Not others.   

Then again, hiding behind others' words is what you do.   Post after post after post after endless post where you post excerpts from books, websites, articles and channeled source after channeled source;  posting what others have to say, instead of formulating your own ideas, or even starting a thread based on your own writings and ideas.   It seems that maybe you're incapable of stating your own case and ideas for anything.   All you can do is parrot what others think and say, and hide behind their words.   And  in this case, you're deflecting the conversation onto others, trying to hide behind the people you imagine must be feeling as you do.


Jen wrote:

Your boyfriend can delete whatever posts he prefers,  and can even delete me, if he chooses.

Revealing stuff about yourself here, I see.  With every sentence, you reveal more and more.

At any rate, congratulations to you Jen, for being your usually crazy self, with your crazy eyes and all.

"Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting "Holy shit ... what a ride!"  - Anonymous
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"I get by with a little help from my (higher density) friends."
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64 (edited by Jen 2005-12-03 11:15:36)

Re: An open letter to David Icke.

I do have friendly feelings for you, lyra, as well as some critical ones.
I read a lot of your posts, and enjoy a lot of them. You certainly help keep this forum lively. 

In another forum, someone made a similar comment to me--implying that I needed to get over myself.  In her case, I don't think she had any friendly feelings toward me at all.  But, I mulled over her words and I realized that there was indeed part of me that needed to feel "special" and above the steaming masses, and that I was unconsciously putting that energy out there.  Ultimately, I was grateful to her for making me more aware of this.

I guess that's what I saw in your remark here:

lyra wrote:

I have a pretty unique way of talking / writing, it stands out in a sea of "sameness" as often found on messageboards, where most of the voices sound alike and blur together

That's really where I was coming from.  You can do with it what you will. I think Christine B. had good insight into it all (thanks, Christine).
Neomatrix made good points too, about conflict resolution.

Peace,

Jen

65 (edited by lyra 2005-12-03 11:20:15)

Re: An open letter to David Icke.

Neomatrix wrote:

Just makes a difference to you in how you deal with what was said. If you don't agree with it, then you're not threatened by the possibility of it being a potential truth, therefore you might just as well ignore it.

May as well.   She can email me off the forum, the email's listed under my name.   Then we can flame all we want and get as ugly as we need, without derailing the forum. 

But it never fails....we're in a New Moon window period, which always brings out the lunatics.  wink  Every time, somebody has to start something.   Like clockwork, it erupts!



Neomatrix wrote:

Well, shit. I didn't know it was you! Thanks for the correction, though.

So, you're a guy, and I'm the editor of the Montalk website. Nothing wrong with a bit of role play now and again, eh? wink

big_smile

"Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting "Holy shit ... what a ride!"  - Anonymous
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"I get by with a little help from my (higher density) friends."
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Re: An open letter to David Icke.

As an outsider to this argument, although no outsider to argument in recent days,
the "tangent" going on here calls for me to end my outsider status and speak out.

First, I'll plug my folded $2 bill thread and mention that what's going on here isn't
different in "spirit" to what I was hoping to dissuade, albeit not tactfully enough...

Off-topic discourse DISturbs the COURSE of the thread, which is hopefully clearly
defined somehow by the subject and/or body of the "root" post. Tangents are ok!

Tangent - a thin comment that touches the main topic, but in an infinitesimal way.
These can be valuable by causing another to provide additional on-topic dialogue.

Not to be left out are the numerous times I've personally found a new, interesting
avenue of research, with new, valuable connections, by link-clicking at Wikipedia.

However, when a discourse develops that could perhaps devalue the thread, thus
decreasing viewership, even the argument winner doesn't win. Advancement lost.

lyra, both AVA and I agree that Jen's comment was justified by your "back-pats".
Sometimes, one must be humble when they don't want to be to 'stay the course'.

Re: An open letter to David Icke.

Human Being wrote:

lyra, both AVA and I agree that Jen's comment was justified by your "back-pats".
Sometimes, one must be humble when they don't want to be to 'stay the course'.

I'm sorry, am I supposed to care?  ??

Human Being, we all saw your loopy beligerant posts last week.  So you're really not in a place to be inputting anything, I don't think. 

Jen can email me off the forum;  in the meantime, if everybody feels the need to jump in and fan the flames and take sides and all that drama, that's their choice.   I will be burning a CD, showering, then taking off for Richmond.   Later....

"Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting "Holy shit ... what a ride!"  - Anonymous
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"I get by with a little help from my (higher density) friends."
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68 (edited by Neomatrix 2005-12-03 12:23:43)

Re: An open letter to David Icke.

Human Being wrote:

lyra, both AVA and I agree that Jen's comment was justified by your "back-pats". Sometimes, one must be humble when they don't want to be to 'stay the course'.

What's so great about being humble, though? And what's so bad about making mention of whatever abilities or talents you think you might have? Must we all be meek, submissive, and silent about our uniqueness? Did Lyra's assertion about the manner and easy recognition of her writing style bring up feelings of inferiority when thinking about your own? Are you really just wanting her to shut up merely to make yourselves feel better?

Not taking sides here, but whenever someone makes a clearly emotional response to something that's been presented to them, then there's often an emotional agenda hidden beneath.

P.S. Reason: that was a really great post, and very enlightening. Up until now I'd bought into Icke's semi-regular rants about how little cash he has to go around, and how tight his budget is, and how it's a miracle he can even afford to pay for a web server every month. I should have known better, and not been fooled. So thanks for sharing that little story. Very eye opening smile

"Fear is the great barrier to human growth. Unknowns create fears. When these Unknowns become Knowns the fears diminish and disappear, and we are able to cope with whatever confronts us." - Robert A. Monroe

69 (edited by Jen 2005-12-03 12:29:12)

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Neomatrix,

It's not that I necessariy think it's great to be humble (although most truly great people tend to be that way).  By all means, we iought to celebrate our assets,  but ideally without comparing oneself to others.  Yes, I've done it myself countless times...as I said to lyra, my words to her reflected my own journey in this regard.

It's true what they say--comparisons are odious.

Jen

70 (edited by Neomatrix 2005-12-03 12:31:49)

Re: An open letter to David Icke.

Jen wrote:

as I said to lyra, my words to her reflected my own journey in this regard. It's true what they say--comparisons are odious.

Okay, just as long as we're clear that her journey is not your own. There's nothing wrong in how we choose to use words, and nothing wrong in making comparisons with others. It's only odious to you if you accept that belief as a truth (regardless of what they, whoever they are, say). And not everyone will, so not everyone will see it the same way smile

"Fear is the great barrier to human growth. Unknowns create fears. When these Unknowns become Knowns the fears diminish and disappear, and we are able to cope with whatever confronts us." - Robert A. Monroe

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......I  just wonder how many potential members are looking at some of these posts as of late thinking wtf?

Some otherwise very insightful threads have been polluted by these little pissing matches enough so that I believe it is keeping regular (member) posters from contributing even if they wanted to. The costant defenses only perpetuate the hostility.

I completely understand defending one's position, especially if misunderstandings in language/ choice of words warrant it.
That's not what I am seeing.
I am seeing a massive waste of keystrokes.

We are better than this.

                                 that's all....

"I hate dreaming. because when you want to sleep, you want to sleep. Dreaming is work. Next thing you know I have to build a go-kart with my ex landlord"
-The late Mitch Hedberg

Re: An open letter to David Icke.

I agree with Neomatrix there... if you already have insecurities, inferiority complexes, personal bias, emotional agendas, etc... then the most trivial things can trigger you into going on the attack. Especially during times like now when lunacy is naturally and predictably heightened. As long as I'm comfortable, accepting, forgiving, and understanding of myself, I can be the same with others.

Haha, new members not familiar with the regular ups and downs of this forum are probably wondering what the hell is going on. Neomatrix, since this is your thread, if you want this last round of off-topic posts deleted, give me the word.

Acquiring fringe knowledge is like digging for diamonds in a mine field.

73

Re: An open letter to David Icke.

Neomatrix wrote:
Jen wrote:

as I said to lyra, my words to her reflected my own journey in this regard. It's true what they say--comparisons are odious.

Okay, just as long as we're clear that her journey is not your own. There's nothing wrong in how we choose to use words, and nothing wrong in making comparisons with others. It's only odious to you if you accept that belief as a truth (regardless of what they, whoever they are, say). And not everyone will, so not everyone will see it the same way smile

Well, if we accept that there truly is only One, then comparisons aren't only odious, they are completely irrelevant.  Ra recommends that when we look at otherselves, we see the Creator in them.  And that when we look in the mirror, we do the same. 

Yup, not always easy to do, but that's my goal.  And, I do see the Creator in lyra as well as in myself.  So, I'm making progress, I think.


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74 (edited by tenetnosce 2005-12-03 13:11:35)

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Putting your light under a bushel serves nobody, least of all yourself.

In the words of U2, we're one, but we're not the same.

Being recognized for our gifts and talents is one of the most gratifying experiences a human can have; it's the need for recognition that causes problems.

What I have observed on NR lately is a lot of people that are looking for validation, and when they don't get the validation they are looking for, they throw a hissy-fit.  Oh well, such is life.

If somebody happens to be a great writer, or musician, or whatever, then I am going to tell them that.  And I would hope that they respond by saying "Thank you, I know."

Self-denial is not humility, it is selfishness.

It is not for us to understand love, but simply to make space for it.

75 (edited by Neomatrix 2005-12-03 13:07:22)

Re: An open letter to David Icke.

Jen wrote:

Well, if we accept that there truly is only One, then comparisons aren't only odious, they are completely irrelevant.  Ra recommends that when we look at otherselves, we see the Creator in them.  And that when we look in the mirror, we do the same.

There truly is only One, yes. That is the ultimate, highest truth. BUT our current level of consciousness is focused into a reality in which that One has fragmented into Many. And those fragments are all unique creatures, with their own unique paths upon which to wander. Differentiation and variety of expression is of vital importance. It's a big part of why we're here in the first place. To see everyone as One, in the sense that you're talking about, is bordering on totalitarianism: "everyone must be the same!" Not having a go, but think about it smile

Montalk wrote:

Neomatrix, since this is your thread, if you want this last round of off-topic posts deleted, give me the word. Otherwise it can stand as a fine example of lunacy over trivial things.

I dunno, even lunacy over trivial things can provide valuable lessons, and yield important insights. It is kinda off-topic though, isn't it? Hmmmn. It's kind of all related though, in a certain sense. Here I am arguing that we should all be making use of this vast wealth of conspiracy and spiritual-related information that we've spent years and years acquiring, that it should change how we relate to other people, and give a new purpose and direction to our society in the future, rather than just provide more reasons to sit around endlessly squabbling and debating with one another over things that are truly of little importance or significance. And then you get a fine, albeit slightly looney, example of just how and why such change is vitally needed! wink

"Fear is the great barrier to human growth. Unknowns create fears. When these Unknowns become Knowns the fears diminish and disappear, and we are able to cope with whatever confronts us." - Robert A. Monroe