Yes, this is very true. In fact we were just talking about this last week. It came up in a very roundabout way, actually. I was marveling at the difference between my Russian female coworkers versus their American counterparts, (the difference is positive...if more Americans acted like them this would be a better place.) Even got to talking to them in depth about their lives back in Belarus. And what ended up coming up as the root of the issue in regards to the difference was...........money. The "American Way". The endless materialistic chase for money and "things". It's unheard of in chaotic, oppresive poverty ridden Belarus, and so the people there end up cultivating a very different set of values, one that centers on family and friends and concern for other's well being; smarts, resourcefulness, flexibility, and adaptability. These Belarussian women come here and they just can not get over the way Americans are, it's like being on a different planet.
So with that in mind, we got to talking about this whole thing here on my end, which led to "The Creation of the American Monster." How did this American Monster get created? What went wrong in America, and when did it start to happen? In a nutshell, "They" set America up to be the land of opportunity, and got everybody nice and comfy with the idea of the great American Dream. People had the opportunity to have EVERYTHING. Instantaneous gratification. They got everybody so used to having an exceess of anything their heart's desired, like little spoiled babies, endlessly consuming and spending and acquiring. Then.............they pulled the rug out from under everybody. Manufactured recessions, companies packing up and shipping operations to 3rd world countries, the loss of manufacturing jobs, lay offs, increase in home prices, gasoline prices, and the endless rising cost of living in general.
And instead of Americans cutting back on their excess consumption and materialistic ways and *adjusting* themselves to these newfound economic ways......... they instead tried harder to keep up to the same level they were at in the past! Get ANOTHER job, and ANOTHER job, work round the clock, rack up that money, at the expense of EVERYTHING else. Gotta keep up with the Jones', gotta get that new SUV, buy that big house no matter what the cost. Gotta have this, gotta have that....nevermind that they never have time or energy to enjoy the stuff. Nevermind that they're acting like a gerbil in a wheel, and the wheel's speed is increasing...faster....faster...faster....
It's nuts. The American Monster.
"Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting "Holy shit ... what a ride!" - Anonymous
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"I get by with a little help from my (higher density) friends."
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