Well,
Regarding Moralmans mention of women loving gay males reminded me of my days living in San Francisco... I was young and attending college there. Happened to live in what is termed "Polk gulch" area-not unlike the Castro district. Anyways, it was nice NOT being constantly "hit" upon and living with that threat that you'd be in danger if shopping, dining alone, whatever-even at night! (I am female BTW). A single female in a primairly gay neighborhood was not likely to get raped/harrassed/bothered.
One of my favorite hairdressers during that time was gay, and he jokingly referred to the women loving gays/lotsa gay male friends as "fag hags". It was all tongue and cheek, but he did make a point. Bottom line though, he was filled with an acute sense of humanity, accepted people as who ther were, saw much of life as it really was, and had a wonderful sense of humor. He loved genuinely, pure and simple-not a phoney bone in his body. Sadly, his partner died of AIDS some time ago...Ironically this hairdresser never contracted it, in spite of being sexually active sans condoms... One of those mysteries huh?
Another incidence that sparked my memory. A family with all boys, 4 to be exact - 3 turned out to be gay...Go figure that? We were childhood playmates spending lotsa fun times playing roller derby, creating neighborhood plays, even barbies... Certainly makes one wonder the odds that 3 out of 4 boys were gay. It was kinda like getting a bunch of other sisters to have fun with with! We played, loved each other, and shared all the ups and downs during those memorable years.
Another interesting note is that there's been research done revealing the fact that women exposed to major stress while pregnant happened to have a higher percentage of homosexual male babies (pregnant during times of war). Do not recall which medical journal at hand, however it's been noted on a few studies. There's biochemical, spiritual mysteries, and perhaps genetic conponents pertaining to this general subject.
All in all, I feel many of us on the forum agree that LOVE is the key-how we may choose to express LOVE is a matter of free will and personal choice. It seems that the Great Creator is not bound by the constraints of man's logic, but something we yearn to understand more and more.
If there is no time
Then you have time for everything.
You're never in a hurry.
That's true freedom.