dreamosis wrote:But it is subjective. Truly effective propagandists, or disinfo artists, probably carefully control their tone of voice and body language--always make eye contact, gesture firmly, don't sway, are prepared. (Stuff they teach you in a beginning public speaking class). Remember that scene in "V for Vendetta" though when Evie knows the reporter's lying? Because she blinks when she lies? Likely there's small stuff like that one can watch for, and then, with the really good spindoctors intuition (and research) is necessary.
"Fakeness in the presenter's voice or body language" is probably subjective, too. Nonetheless, even in a critical frame of mind (as opposed to being in an intuitional mode), it's difficult to miss. Granted, by observing the motions of the body alone it's hard to know if somebody's inauthentic or simply nervous.
This could make an interesting side topic. I know that I'm really good at reading people in person and even over the 'net, to the point where I've "joked" that it feels like I've actually received formal training for how to do this. I haven't, (at least, that I'm aware of!) but I'll nail stuff about people that's so specific, straight off the bat, and it will take others around me a very long time to catch up and figure it out on their own. It could be a useful thing for perceptive people to pool together the things they've noticed that correlate to what.
For instance...and I hate to keep mentioning this last temp job I had at the church, but since I'm finally done with it it's like, Okay, now I can talk about it, haha
but yeah, at my last temp job, I became like "hmmmm....." regarding the head Deacon dude on our very first meeting, and by the second I was totally leary and involuntarily pulled back from him. What was it that he did that I took note of...that others may not have noticed, for whatever reason? For starters, he came over to me and gave me boisterous pats on the back/shoulders....twice....during the first 15 minutes I met him. And he spoke in such a way that it was almost like he was feigning hyper friendliness, like trying way too hard to be this super friendly exhuberent likeable guy. It just seemed...fake in some way, yet, it was so subtle that I know MOST people would not see it. In fact most people would think, "Oh, what a nice guy! I like him!" because he did seem like this nice, friendly, older guy. (He's in his late 50s with white hair.) And meanwhile, I sound the total biaaatch going "Hmm, there's something wrong and off about him. I don't trust him."
oh well. A lot of the times the reason people get tricked and fooled by others lies in the subtly of it all. They're looking or expecting all out sociopathic serial killer madmen or something, and so miss these weird, oh so subtle quirks of human nature. In too many cases, all somebody has to do is.....act nice. And people will think, Oh, they're so nice!
It's too easy, unfortunately.
Come to find out that Mr. Super Friendly, Desperate to Make You Like Him deacon dude used to be a cop. And he had a hot temper. Don't cross him. He was friendly and boisterous.....so long as people agreed with him. Heard stories about that, and I did glimpse the dark side myself poking through a few times. His mannerisms though were all an act. He was a cop, and he'd of course "learned" what worked with people to make them relax and get into an open, trusting mode.
Not with me. I completely shut him out. I saw through it by the second meeting, then later found out he'd been a cop and it all just clicked. All that boisterous laughing personality and boisterous back/shoulder patting was just him playing "good cop." He would also ask you stuff multiple times, even cut you off in mid sentence to go back to something you finished talking about five, ten minutes before and just...ask it again, in a slightly different way.......That's total cop behavior. He'd get an intense look on his face and this weird look in his eye, staring intently at me as he'd ask the question again. Then immediately after I'd answer it....YET AGAIN....his face would immediately soften, his eyes would glaze over and he'd shift personalities, becoming light and soft and innocent and dopey and "sweet" again....then five minutes later get that intense look again and ask the question YET AGAIN. I mean, fricking freak job. Hello. But I could tell by the second time...something was weird here. Get away from me!!
There's so much more I could say about this, (side note: He ended up being a bit of a creepo, so my initial creeped out impression of him was spot on........soon after I started working there, he tried very intensely to get me to go to lunch with him one day, and was not taking NO for an answer; I was firm, and had to tell him no seriously, like five or six times, explaining that I bring my own lunch, but thaaaanks....Then he insisted that he "needed" my home phone number....you know, just in case some emergency or something happened, cough, yeah.....and then twice he came in acting all cutesy and sweet with me - keep in mind he doesn't even know me, or I him, and wanted cutesy "hugs" from me, "Aww come here, give me a hug...!" Ew. Get away. Then after I decided not to take the job permanently.......he was solely 90% of the deciding factor!!!!......he would incessantly work it into every conversation (making the sweet, sad, pouty little boys face) that he was going to miss me sooo much. He would even interrupt stuff he was saying and interject that out of nowhere!!! Like, "Today we visited so-and-so, and she.......why do you have to gooo? I'm going to miss you....." EWWWWWWWWW. And he was married. AND a Deacon. !! So talk about bizarro.)
So yes, I think it could make a great side spin off topic or something. People need to learn how to read people better. I've seen too many people get taken for a ride either in person, or over the 'net. It could be useful info!
"Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting "Holy shit ... what a ride!" - Anonymous
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