This is related to "About the Grays" but my personal experience.

The first incident happened over 25 years ago.

Kevin, Ed and I are stopped on Grange at Garr headed east toward Red Bud outside Berrien Springs MI.  (for those who wish to map it)  I glance down at the clock, it's 11:43 PM.

I proceed through the intersection toward Red Bud and about a 1/3 of the way Kevin says, "What's that?"  (cleaning up the language)  Ed says, "No kidding, what is that?"  I glanced over and it appeared to be a 35 foot (10 meter?) diameter sphere of light.

I turned my attention back to the road as Kevin and Ed continue to discuss possibilities.  Someone in the woods spotting deer?  A house?  A helicopter overhead?  Offered up and shot down.  I looked again and my opinion is that it was light with no source and it was moving.

I looked back to the road and everything went white.  It seemed like a second or so of time.  I glanced back to where the light had been, noted the stunned expression on Kevin's face, and as I was turning to look out my side of the car I glanced at the clock, 2:35 AM.  I looked into the side view mirror and we've traveled about as far as one would expect at 40 mph in a couple seconds time.

Lots of odd things here.

1)  When Kevin first saw the light I turned the radio off.  When everything went white we all went silent.  I drove to Ed's and dropped them both off, none of us said a word, nothing.

2)  The distance we traveled from the time everything went white until I was able to gauge how far it was took, it seemed, 3 seconds or so.  Not enough space to go from 40 to 0 and back to 40 again, not even close.  This suggests that it is possible that while driving down the road one night we appeared nearly three hours later where it should have taken us a second or so to get.

3)  I quickly forgot about it, never talked to anyone about it and didn't remember it for 12 years.  My best guess that is was exactly 12 years to the second when I woke up in the middle of the night.

4)  When I say everything went white, I mean I couldn't see the steering wheel.  It was like being in a room so dark you can't see your hand in front of your face but instead of black, white.  A light source sufficently strong to do that should cause some eye strain, difficulty in refocusing but it didn't.

(Number 2 is the one I really can't rap my brain around.)

The second incident happened about 6 years and 8 months later.

Gordon, Kurt and I went to a baseball game at Wrigley Field in Chicago.  Kurt went across the street to HighTops (I think that's what it's called today) and Gordon and I are listening to street muscians.  Drummer, Bongos, Acustic guitar (why bother) and a Sax player.  More then you usually expect and not half bad.

Then I got this overwhelming feeling someone is looking at me.  Something we've all experienced but I'd never experienced it that strong before or since.  I turn left and start scanning the crowd.  There she is, standing directly behind me next to the stadium and it looks like my dream woman.  About 5'4", 115 lbs, blonde hair past her shoulders wearing bluejeans, tennies and a red sweater.

She's about 25 to 30 feet away.  We are at a busy intersection outside a ball park with street muscians, elevated trains and all sorts of other noises when she says, "I wondered how long it would take you to notice me"  at an audible level you'd expect from across the table at home and without moving her lips.  I'm thinking that I'm imagining that she's speaking, it's not possible, ect when she adds, "I know your confused and maybe a little afraid but I can read your thoughts and I can allow you to read mine."

(I want to stop for a second.  She can read mine and can ALLOW me to read hers?  I assume she means to be selective in what she sends.)

I don't remember exactly what she said after that.  Something about wanting me to come with her, you can help us, because you have seen the light .... That phrase temporarily paralyzed my brain.  She continued on but it was coming through as if from Charlie Brown's parents.  She continued on, I couldn't process anything.

It was about then that Gordon turned around and said, "That girl is checking you out."  I said, "What do you expect me to do, ditch you and Kurt here in Chicago?"  We debated Kurt ditching us if given the chance for a bit then I turned my attention back to the girl.

She was gone.  I was only a matter of 15, maybe 20 seconds.  She's not right, not to the left.  It's as if she vanished.  Sure, she could have disappeared in the crowd but it was an uncomfortable feeling none the less.

The third incident happened 12 years after the first.

I ran into Kevin on a Monday and we decided to get together on Thursday.  Likely early AM Wednesday I awoke in the middle of the night and remembered the first incident for the first time since shortly after it's occurance.

When I brought the subject up with Kevin he first said he didn't remember, I broached it again and he said it never happened.

So, I went out to where I thought I remembered it to see if I had the landmarks and topography correct.  That convinced me to pay a visit to Ed.

When I broached the subject with him the first thing out of his mouth was, "I've been thinking about that."  He added "We've never talked about it" and "Kevin is full of it, he was the first one to see it and pointed it out."

The fourth incident happened 24 years after the first and 12 years after the third.

I woke up in the middle of the night and remembered the first incident.  Why 12 and 24?  Why multiples of 12?  Why in the middle of the night, a touch after 2:30 AM or so?  Why?

The fifth incident happened within this past year.

I connected the light incident to the telepath incident.

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My take?  The light and the girl are from the same, higher, dimension and they don't like us.