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Seems like there is a definite split in this thread.  Normally I am one for the "believe and do whatever you want" camp, however there are times when I feel it is imperative to make a very strong statement.  I feel that right now is a very critical moment where the subject of aliens is concerned.

I've gotta go with lyra and montalk on this one.  If you are new to the subject of aliens, or even if you are a regular abductee, you must understand that abductions are not positive. 

For the love of God, people, they are ABDUCTIONS! 

abduct, To carry off by force; kidnap.

Does this sound like a nice thing to you?

By all means, do your own research, but the first part of any good research methodology is to consult with others who have done research and/or have direct experience in the area you are researching.

If anybody is thinking about opening themselves up to this kind of experience, in any form, I implore you not to.  You do not know what you are getting yourself into.

Yes, there are "good" and "bad" aliens, just like anybody else.  And just like anybody else, "good" aliens do not abduct people. 

And yes, "good" and "bad" are relative terms, and they are judgments that we have assigned to things.  Yes, we are all one.  Light and love!  Love and light! Ra! Ra! Ra!

So what?  I am one with the flu virus.  Does that mean I go around inviting people to sneeze in my face?  I don't think so.

And if somebody does sneeze in my face and I get sick, does that mean I crawl into a cave somewhere and spend the rest of my life feeling sorry for myself?  No, that's not what it means either.

Why? Why?  Why is it that when it comes to the subject of abductions, otherwise balanced and intelligent people throw all their common sense out the door?

Would you allow your own child to be abducted by a pedophile because, hey, it's all one anyway and you wouldn't want to be one to judge?

Would you allow 10 random people to live in your house and have access to all your personal belongings figuring, well 9 of them are probably good trustworthy people so it's OK?

Would you allow your best friend to have unprotected sex with an HIV infected man because, after all, it's her choice and you wouldn't want to infringe upon her freewill?

Oh but we're not talking about THOSE things, we're talking about alien abductions.

OK I see, there must be a completely different set of rules that apply here.

Use your freekin brains people!

It is not for us to understand love, but simply to make space for it.

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We actually don't know what is going on here, because our perceptions color the experiences when we're in such a state or realm as the grays exist.  We call them abductions, but, like what's been brought up, how much are we participating?  Because we can't consciously address this, we can't really know.  Common sense would say that we should keep our minds open about these types of things.  We can say anyone that has an OBE is "abducted", or anybody that has been taken to another realm is "abducted", too, but what experience you have is largely based on the amount of fear one has.  Like an acid trip, it depends on your state of mind.

EDIT: I thought I'd elaborate on the acid trip mentality.  People under the influence will feel bugs on their skin, when in fact there are none.  Schizophrenics will believe people are after them.  So on and so forth.  When taken, it may feel like an abduction against your will.  That may be a misinterpretation.  You may be going to them, or maybe never leaving your room.  Maybe it's an OBE and you just provide the details after the fact.  I'm assuming it's while in an extremely suggestible state of mind that these things happen, when your mind is most open to other realms.  A schizo might think that a shot from a doctor contains some sinister ingredient, while an abductee, in whom a very high fight or flight response has been triggered (everything is sinister, especially in the childlike state of mind hypnosis) might believe that the grays are putting probes in their rectum, etc.  The information gets colored.  Not to mention that it is only after the fact that we recall all these things.  What have we changed?  What have we misintrepreted?  The mind must provide a narrative, and if it was a scary experience, then the mind will fill in the appropriate details, so that we know to avoid a similar experience.  We only want to color this experience as bad because we felt threatened in some manner.

I don't know what a gray exactly is, but I know what a pedophile is.  I know what HIV is, too.  The parellels are faulty.  When all activity has stopped in the brain because we have made up our minds, then we are not using our brains anymore.  While it may be easy to say it is programming when anybody disagrees with me (ala the devil, new term for old superstitions), the more reasonable approach would be to assume that having such a knee-jerk reaction is more programming than choosing to observe before making an assumption when dealing with subjective and limited information about grays, be they inner or outer space, for ill or good.

Time to go hang out with my gray buddies to get programmed.

* When we start identifying wisdom with our ability to comprehend its form, what wisdom is that?
* Judge not, that ye be not judged. For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.
* People want platitudes, not progress.

153 (edited by lyra 2005-10-23 13:03:39)

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Haven wrote:

When all activity has stopped in the brain because we have made up our minds, then we are not using our brains anymore.

Once again, Haven misses the point.  But, that's nothing new.   

Haven, the point of this thread is mainly this:   You can't control what will come through that open door.    When one is open to the idea of being abducted and of "good" aliens versus "bad aliens", they are naively leaving themselves open to the "bad" stuff getting through, because at this stage of the game they're not strong enough to know how to control what comes through and what doesn't.   This is "Paranormal 101."  It was something that was taught to me by a Wiccan years back when I was explaining to her that the apartment I lived in with my brother had open portals, and "stuff" was coming through.  She warned me, "You have to close those open portals, you have to, because sooner or later, something bad WILL get through, even if it hasn't happened yet."

Boy, was she right.   Something negative did get through, and it was all I could do to stuff back inside, figuritively speaking.  And no, I was never able to fully close those portals, and I was barely able to keep the troublemaker in question at bay.  Then we moved, and ultimately it didn't matter anymore anyway.

But that's the main point, to re-iterate to you and anybody else who may not understand where exactly I'm coming from.  I know that overall I seem so black-and-white, closed minded and harsh, as if I've "stopped thinking" and all that, blah blah blah, etc. etc. etc.    I know there are supposed to be "good aliens."   But again, most people do not currently have the ability to control what comes through an open door into their reality. 

If you're someone who does have this ability, then please disregard what I'm saying.   But for all others, especially newbies and those who are naive, just be careful, that's all I can say.   Be careful what you wish for.   And know what it is you're doing.......and who you're dealing with........before you do it.

My primary concern / motivator when starting this thread was to counterbalance the one sided, "Grays are keeeeewwwwwwwl!" marketing campaign established in the late 80s, indoctrinating the public into accepting them as "keeeeewwwwwwl!"

Haven, I don't intend to re-explain myself again.   In other threads you have consistently demonstrated the inability to comprehend when someone clarifies your misunderstandings -  you'll keep re-iterating your misunderstanding over and over, as if the correction has never took place, to the point where Montalk labeled you as "dense."   So, this is my one re-clarification for your benefit.

"Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting "Holy shit ... what a ride!"  - Anonymous
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Lyra, I imagine you experience such bad stuff because you are overwhelmingly negative.  Of course you attract those things that you are most like, and you choose to see your reality that way.

* When we start identifying wisdom with our ability to comprehend its form, what wisdom is that?
* Judge not, that ye be not judged. For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.
* People want platitudes, not progress.

155 (edited by lyra 2005-10-23 13:22:05)

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Haven wrote:

Lyra, I imagine you experience such bad stuff because you are overwhelmingly negative.  Of course you attract those things that you are most like, and you choose to see your reality that way.

Haven, how old are you anyway?  I used to think you were probably in your 30's, if not 40's.   Now I'm thinking maybe you're actually no older than 20 or so.   And your assertation that I "experience such negative stuff because I'm negative" is also an affront to every other Noble Realmer who has also experienced the same stuff I have...and worse.  Because some of my experiences pale in comparison to what others have written.  IF you've paid attention.    And let's face it, my being "negative" is just your personal opinion because you once lied about me and when I called you on it, over and over and over and over and over and over again you refused to acknowledge it.  Just tried to sweep it under the rug, and densly plodded forth, reiterating your misperceptions, over and over again.   It was very strange.   

I don't suffer fools gladly, and especially people who lie about me and then refuse to step up to the plate, like an adult, and acknowledge it.   

I don't post in your threads Haven.   I don't even respond to your postings in other threads.  I stay away, and do my own thing.   Maybe you could take the hint?

"Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting "Holy shit ... what a ride!"  - Anonymous
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"I get by with a little help from my (higher density) friends."
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156 (edited by lyra 2005-10-23 13:31:10)

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Before this diverts into more negativity, I'm going to post something I came across yesterday.  After Haven popped up in this thread, with me still nursing old grudges towards him for the ridiculous crap that occurred in other threads, I grabbed the Stuie Wilde book I had with me and absent mindedly opened to a random part of the book.  I figured I should get back to reading instead of being on the computer so much, and I didn't even look at where I had opened it at first, due to being distracted by my thoughts.  Finally I looked down at the book, began reading, and I swear to God this is what I opened up to, it was so fitting:

From "Infinite Self", page 91:

"As a part of your overall serenity, it's important to try to disengage from arguments and all the antagonistic positions you may find yourself in.  It's hard to go beyond tick-tock and embrace a more angelic way if you're constantly at war with people.  In the act of scrapping with others, you metaphysically hold yourself back.....It doesn't matter if your cause is just or unjust;  it's the emotion and thought-forms of an argument that lock you in.....You don't have to fall in love with everybody, but at least try to reconcile the situation as best as possible so the emotion of it doesn't control you.....Freedom is more important that winning turf wars for the ego."


Picking up a meaningful book and opening it up at random usually lands one on very fitting passages.  A topic for another thread I suppose.   But, this is where I leave off with the Haven Fight.   That's it for me.

"Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting "Holy shit ... what a ride!"  - Anonymous
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"I get by with a little help from my (higher density) friends."
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Re: Everything You've Been Told About the "Grays" is Bunk

Haven wrote:

We actually don't know what is going on here, because our perceptions color the experiences when we're in such a state or realm as the grays exist.

The qualitative does not disqualify the quantitative. Colored lenses do not hide the contrast between shapes. Regardless of colored perceptions, the underlying invariant pattern still reveals the picture. We cannot know with absolute certainty and total fidelity, but practical application of this knowledge does not require perfection. We can make an educated guess based on what's available. If applying this guess leads to greater freedom, then for practical purposes it was a good guess. I would be hesitant to go belly up at the mere whiff of subjectivity. Sometimes you gotta work with what you have, and reach for what you can get.

Haven wrote:

I don't know what a gray exactly is, but I know what a pedophile is.  I know what HIV is, too.  The parellels are faulty.

That is more a reflection of your lack of experience and research. Remember, lack of proof is not always proof to the contrary. That you cannot make an assessment due to insufficient data on your part does not invalidate the conclusions of others who do have the data. Some of this is just conclusions reached through logic, but even that is too much to ask from the agnostics.

Haven wrote:

We can say anyone that has an OBE is "abducted", or anybody that has been taken to another realm is "abducted", too, but what experience you have is largely based on the amount of fear one has.  Like an acid trip, it depends on your state of mind.

That is an invalid comparison. An acid trip is entirely subjective, an abduction has some level of objectivity. The objective component is in the motives of the abductors in relation to your own and what the consequences of the abduction might be. Dropping your fear might make the rape more enjoyable, but does not turn it into an act of "making love".

Acquiring fringe knowledge is like digging for diamonds in a mine field.

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Haven wrote:

Again, this information is all taken after the fact, and gaps are filled in by your mind, which it is designed to do.  All that needs to be known is that something happened that you didn't like, and your mind will produce whatever it needs to make sure that it won't happen again if it is in your power, even if that means producing illusions ...

I'm curious what you're basing this theory on.

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montalk wrote:
Haven wrote:

We actually don't know what is going on here, because our perceptions color the experiences when we're in such a state or realm as the grays exist.

The qualitative does not disqualify the quantitative. Colored lenses do not hide the contrast between shapes. Regardless of colored perceptions, the underlying invariant pattern still reveals the picture. We cannot know with absolute certainty and total fidelity, but practical application of this knowledge does not require perfection. We can make an educated guess based on what's available. If applying this guess leads to greater freedom, then for practical purposes it was a good guess. I would be hesitant to go belly up at the mere whiff of subjectivity. Sometimes you gotta work with what you have, and reach for what you can get.

Have you read Visitors From Within, montalk?  It seems that the only sources you are quarreling with where the Grays are concerned, are Larkins/Streiber/Leider (none of which I have felt drawn to).  Can you really say you've looked at this subject from all available angles?  Here's an editorial review:

Michael Lindemann, 2020 Group, author of UFOs and the Alien Presence:

As a theoretical framework, Visitors from Within permits resolution of some of the most troubling contradictions in the data of abduction. As speculative philosophy, it is often profound, often moving, always intriguing. It acknowledges the sometimes infuriating strangeness of the visitor phenomenon, yet left me feeling somehow less estranged from the visitors. That alone is a great achievement.

There are two other books, comprising a trilogy:  The Prism of Lyra (nothing to do with our Lyra, I presume wink ) and Preparing For Contact.
Haven't read them yet, but I want to.

[...]

Haven wrote:

We can say anyone that has an OBE is "abducted", or anybody that has been taken to another realm is "abducted", too, but what experience you have is largely based on the amount of fear one has.  Like an acid trip, it depends on your state of mind.

montalk wrote:

That is an invalid comparison. An acid trip is entirely subjective, an abduction has some level of objectivity. The objective component is in the motives of the abductors in relation to your own and what the consequences of the abduction might be. Dropping your fear might make the rape more enjoyable, but does not turn it into an act of "making love".

And pointing the finger of blame at the rapist does not invalidate the understanding that in some way you have attracted that experience into your life (and no, I don't mean by "dressing sexy").

As for the objective/subjective dichotomy, I don't think anything that "happens to us" is purely the one or the other.

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Jen wrote:

Have you read Visitors From Within, montalk?

I don't know about montalk, but I was at a metaphysical bookstore just last night and was reading the beginning pages of that book.   The fact that the next day (now) I come on NR and see it mentioned like this is another UFO-related synchronicity for me.   

I did not get to read very far into the book but from the introduction I was able to determine that the basic premise of the book is that UFOs, greys etc seem to be outside of our scope of reality and therefore defy any logical analysis.    This is a mistake. 

Just because the phenomenon (, -a) may be difficult and seemingly enigmatic in nature does not mean we should just write it all off as being purely subjective or just a matter of opinion.   There is a wealth of data out there showing the effects of UFO activity to be quite real, tangible and present in this little 3D realm of ours.   As montalk just pointed out, just because you haven't read all the evidence and data yourself does not mean it's not there.

Jen wrote:

And pointing the finger of blame at the rapist does not invalidate the understanding that in some way you have attracted that experience into your life

That may or may not be the case; we don't know that.  If it is true, it's a purely metaphysical concept and doesn't explain why your telephone is being tapped, your mail opened and tones going off in your ear every time you read an article about UFO abductions.  To try to apply that way of thinking to the here-and-now physical realm is dangerous.

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morningsun76 wrote:

]I don't know about montalk, but I was at a metaphysical bookstore just last night and was reading the beginning pages of that book.   The fact that the next day (now) I come on NR and see it mentioned like this is another UFO-related synchronicity for me.   

I did not get to read very far into the book but from the introduction I was able to determine that the basic premise of the book is that UFOs, greys etc seem to be outside of our scope of reality and therefore defy any logical analysis.    This is a mistake.

Um, you're twisting this a bit.  Here's what they say in the preface: "UFO's and visitors do not originate in our reality.  Therefore, they do not conform to the laws of our reality. To attempt to understand them using only the laws of our reality will always keep us at arm's length from any significant answers."

This makes sense, I think.  Different realities = different laws of reality, different understandings.  It does not imply that there is no logic to the experiences--just that it may not be the kind of logic we are in the habit of using.

And, change is good for the soul, including changes in our ways of understanding things.

[...]

Jen wrote:

And pointing the finger of blame at the rapist does not invalidate the understanding that in some way you have attracted that experience into your life

morningsun76 wrote:

That may or may not be the case; we don't know that.  If it is true, it's a purely metaphysical concept and doesn't explain why your telephone is being tapped, your mail opened and tones going off in your ear every time you read an article about UFO abductions.  To try to apply that way of thinking to the here-and-now physical realm is dangerous.

For my part, I think that when we don't take an honest look at how we are creating any aspect of our experience, we will likely repeat it until we have reached that understanding, and learned the lesson that it contains for us.

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Haven wrote:

We all have lack of experience regarding grays, unless you take a highly subjective and interpreted experience as truth

You subjectively say these experiences are more subjective than they actually are, just to suit your bias against anyone forming any working hypotheses concerning the matter.

Experience varies but everything taken together makes for a strong case. Take the class of experienced abductees...learn how well their story holds up, perhaps with multiple correlative accounts by family members, photographed marks, surgical removal of anomalous objects, recorded phone anomalies, etc... See how this correlates with mythological, religious, cultural, and anthropological clues concerning the alien presence, then compare this to the various UFO videos and photographs, trace samples, testimony by various police/military/government personnel, variety of channeled messages, works of abduction researchers, etc...  You gotta be blinder than a mole or lazier than a sloth to so flippantly dismiss all this.

Haven wrote:

We have to wonder who is providing the "facts" and why they are providing them.  Who is more inclined to provide the facts, what are they seeking, how much money, what attention and recognition do they want, etc.

Every abductee undergoes this scrutiny and a good portion are found to be trustworthy. Many do not even want to acknowledge what their experiences are point towards. Their bias goes against the very thing they eventually no longer can deny.

Haven wrote:

Besides, there's plenty of information regarding good grays, isn't there?  Or is that not accepted on your own experiences?

You missed the point, it is not about which side of the debate has more information, but which side has more data that stands up to scrutiny. The "good grays" material is easily exposed on its logical flaws and deceptive undertone. For instance, hypnotists who are unaware of the screen memory phenomenon take the first hypnotically recalled "experience" as the final one, and these tend to always be positive. But when probed more slowly and carefully on the inconsistencies in this screen(without leading questions) the layer is peeled back to reveal something darker and more objective. Just like hypnosis for police eye-witness recall. The majority of "good grays" information is generated without ever passing through the discernment filter, is filled with holes and deceptions, and is therefore not valid signal.

Haven wrote:

Who has the data, and what objective data is there?

You want "objective" in the absolute sense. I say "objective" in the relative sense, as in "this idea/source/person/experience" is more objective than another... and so after numerous iterations of this comparative process you arrive at something that is much more objective that you started. It's a distillation process, or like panning for gold. You look at the river silt and say "what gold could there be, all I see is sand and mud...we can't say with certainty that there even is such a thing as gold." You want a bag of bullion handed to you to be convinced.

Haven wrote:

Courts won't take evidence pulled from hypnotic states, and no right-minded person takes things that happen that you don't remember until later as hard and fast evidence.

Courts are only interested in matters of law and are very systematic and conservative in dealing with disputes of law. Even then, courts are not the ultimate arbiters of truth. The government and military, on the other hand, are more concerned with results than conservatism, thus they use lie detectors, hypnosis, and remote viewing among other things. That courts won't take evidence of hypnosis does not disqualify hypnosis as a whole. You have a habit of rationalizing your bias through a wide assortment of logical fallacies.

Haven wrote:

I have to disagree with you here.  I believe that an abduction is a lot like an acid trip, from what I have gathered on the subject.  Nobody has the objective to have bugs crawling on your skin, a feeling of intense fear, or whatever the case may be.  An abduction may only involve rape because that is how you felt, so your mind provided the details.

Then all I can acknowledge is that what you have gathered on the subject is too superficial to engage in an actually meaningful debate. There is an assortment of evidence that it's not all in the mind, for instance multiple cases of welts and strange semen-like fluids on the inner thigh, sore internal parts, and post traumatic stress disorder following a consciously recalled reptoid-rape. This is the kind of stuff you will find if you dig and investigate.

Haven wrote:

I've already said I wouldn't want to be abducted, but that's because so much has been put out there to make me wary of the whole experience.  That's drawing a conclusion.  What's argued here is the validity of that conclusion.  My instincts will guard me, but they don't care for the truth.

The conclusion is as valid for you, as you have put time and effort into reaching it.

Acquiring fringe knowledge is like digging for diamonds in a mine field.

163 (edited by montalk 2005-10-23 15:44:40)

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Jen, I will read "Visitors from Within."

That we pull negative experiences and predators into our lives through resonance, fear, or naivete makes sense. We cannot lay all the blame on the abductors, nor let this understanding lead to a condoning of their behavior. If we allow the manifestation of their intent, then we share in the consequences but should not ignore what their intent has been all along. What we allow is not precisely the same as what we create. The whole point of this discussion from the very first page is to get an understanding of ourselves and our manipulators in order to make an informed choice on where we stand, on what we will allow.

"UFO's and visitors do not originate in our reality.  Therefore, they do not conform to the laws of our reality. To attempt to understand them using only the laws of our reality will always keep us at arm's length from any significant answers."

That's speaking more of the nuts-and-bolts UFOlogists who think aliens are 3D beings in mechanical crafts from some other spot in our galaxy, or the skeptics who keep insisting on being presented with an alien ash tray as proof of abduction. Through 3D linear physics and naive anthropomorphism, yeah there's no good way of getting significant answers.

But...neither do some of us originate from this reality, and those who incarnate from higher realms carry their innate knowledge into 3D - retrievable through matching observation with intuition via critical thinking and an eye for discernment. Under the hyperdimensional paradigm, everything falls into place.

Acquiring fringe knowledge is like digging for diamonds in a mine field.

164 (edited by morningsun76 2005-10-23 18:52:26)

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Some people argue to try to prove a working hypothesis which they have come up with based on all available data.

Others argue to validate their pre-accepted religious beliefs, in spite of all available data.

The former is attempting to reach truth, while the latter tries vainly to defend their fragile ego.   We see here examples of two fundamentally incompatible ways of thinking which can never be reconciled.

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montalk wrote:

Jen, I will read "Visitors from Within."

Great, look forward to your comments.

That we pull negative experiences and predators into our lives through resonance, fear, or naivete makes sense. We cannot lay all the blame on the abductors, nor let this understanding lead to a condoning of their behavior. If we allow the manifestation of their intent, then we share in the consequences but should not ignore what their intent has been all along. What we allow is not precisely the same as what we create. The whole point of this discussion from the very first page is to get an understanding of ourselves and our manipulators in order to make an informed choice on where we stand, on what we will allow.

There is MUCH in-depth discussion of all this in the book, and as I said before, a whole chapter on how to change or end the abduction experience, if we wish.  Ultimately it is all about taking our power, rather than unthinking submission.