Holo,
I agree with you that all of the issues you mentioned....about the person perhaps not having been taught correctly, or the healer not having cleared through enough of their own "stuff"...these could well have been part of the problem in the cases I've witnessed.
I think the thing that makes me saddest about ALL the holistic healing pathways is that we can be so isolated. I've spent 20 years pretty "aggressively" talking about empathy, sensory awareness, spirituality, utilization of the upper chakras, etc. with just about anybody who wants to talk about these things to try to see if we can all come to some place where we're using similar vocabulary. But it seems that so many of the healing modalities have their own unique (and sometimes secretive, as can be the case of Reiki) protocols that two healers from different paths/systems rarely sit around, shoot the breeze, and troubleshoot through this stuff together. They're not given enough training, they don't have access to a good mentor to bounce stuff off of, etc.
So there's not a lot of sitting around the coffee machine comparing notes on the week's work, which I feel is essential with anything in life. Otherwise, how do we learn? Books will only take you so far. Workshops and periodic study with a teacher can only take you so far. But the ongoing process of contrasting and comparing your experiences with others who do what you do is the greatest teacher, I feel. Nothing beats "talking shop!"
I think every healing path needs to be more transparent so people can understand the energies and techniques involved and make fully informed decisions about whether or not they resonate with them. There ARE universal experiences that cut across all healing modalities, energy perceptions and sensations. But most schools of healing are isolationist and use unique terms that make that path somehow sound like it's the "best" or the "sole path to truth." And I don't like that. It sets healers against each other, when we should be seeking common ground across different systems that we practice. We're all energy beings, we all respond to energy, and we need to be talking about this stuff so we can better understand this amazing bodily system we inhabit.
When a healer lacks experience, even if they are well-intentioned, big-hearted, and gifted, they can get into some serious doo-doo when they work on people. Because if something goes wrong, they might be out of their depth, unable to troubleshoot or talk about it with others who might be able to help. This was what was going on in the cases I followed and attempted to help out with.
I don't claim that dangerous side effects from a healing session are something that is unique to Reiki. I'm sure they can happen with other modalities. It all depends on the healer, the client, the energy present in the session and how it's being directed, plus a million other things.
But my red flag IS way up about Reiki because of the extremely distressing stuff I've witnessed. Of the healing sessions I've been privileged to witness or participate in, a disproportionate percentage of the severe, melodramatic, life-threatening, "call-the-ambulance-he's-going-down" type effects happened when Reiki energy was applied. As a journalist of the "woo-woo," I have to take note of it. It's simply a fact that I've observed within the cases I've personally studied.
Will this necessarily be true with all other healers who observe lots of healing sessions? I can't say for sure. I can only speak to what I've seen and felt and directly participated in, in a "man on the scene" role.
Holo, it sounds like you're very tuned in and know what you're doing, which is great. I hope you're teaching the "young 'uns" out there tips on discerning and clearing, etc. It seems like there are far too few mature healers to help mentor the "newbies" out there.
And please note that when I use the word "newbie" I'm not using the word to refer to someone who is a "lesser healer." I'm using the term to refer to someone who is "junior" in their training or experiences, perhaps into it just a couple of years, still learning.
I've found that many "newbies" are actually very advanced with their wisdom and talents....yet they lack a social circle to talk about this stuff with. And many older, more "experienced" healers can, as you said, get all caught up in the titles and the ego gratification and hold themselves apart from gifted healers just starting out, sometimes because of jealousy or lack of time or even because they're not getting "paid" to share this information.
Me, I love encoutering some hot new talent who I can tell is going to far exceed anything I might be able to do in the healing department. That always excites me, to see the amazing and unique ways people can approach healing work. More and more powerful healers are "waking up" to their abilities each day. It's very cool.
I believe we each possess a unique connection to Spirit that is powerful, not a single one of us better or worse than the other. The challenge is for us each to remember this talent that we have.
Reiki will continue to be a valid and popular modality for many, and I honor that. And I remain completely open to the idea that there are great Reiki practitioners out there who do good, and that they should keep doing what they are doing.
In this thread and in my articles I've simply presented a contrarian view for people who find that that Reiki as a healing modality doesn't resonate with them - largely because nobody is talking about this in a public venue, and many people with this view remain silent, isolated, and confused about what they are sensing. I've attempted to provide a potential framework for them. And I understand it's not going to sit well with a lot of Reiki people who have had nothing but good experiences with that modality. Please consider this a "point/counterpoint" discussion, and take away from it what you will.
Anyway, carry on!
LipstickMystic aka Jennifer