Where did Jen go?  She's pretty awesome.

Guestification - Couple O‘ Years Back (!)

Was A Favorite In This Zone Also.

Shhhhhhh don't tell anyone

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Natural Mystic, I'm -very- interested to know what prompted you to read/comment on this thread.

Curious timing. . .

It seems to me that if They can't get at you directly for whatever reason, They will attack you through the people you are closest to. They could orchestrate a seemingly perfect relationship, or take an already existing one, a taste of fulfilment and happiness... and then take it all away through control of the more spiritually ignorant partner. But how can you wake them up?! This could be avoided if both were 'aware', but that's like two needles trying to find each other in a haystack... Out of all the people I know in person right now, only one of them is remotely waking up to this other world, just 1, but blatantly encountering heavy resistance. Anyway the 'taster' process (necessary because They would require real feelings, not superficial 'wanting', and you cannot truly want what you have not truly had) could take very little time, probably a few weeks at least, but the after effects of the break-up (which could be drawn out for months for maximum devastation) would turn anyone into a very efficient 'loosh' factory for months, years or longer, bleeding through into other areas of their life and leaving them drained and open to manipulation. All the loss, loneliness and longing would be quite a feast. When you lose a limb, you bleed. Seems bleak, but maybe one example of this is why some people, myself included, are perpetually close but no cigar, even though we're not THAT bad. It's just enough to keep us unfulfilled and lonely, distracted, and thus controlled. How beautifully efficient?

The emotional pain I feel from unfulfilled/unfulfillable desire goes away, or atleast is made less painful and changing into something not so language or image based, by being completely in the moment. Desire by its very nature is not of the moment, for wishing for something in the future always leaves part of me stuck in my imaginary future, and desiring to re-live the past leaves part of me trapped in my subjective memory of the past. When I think about all the time I've spent daydreaming about nostalgic things and happy memories, or all the energy spent being in-love with someone who doesn't feel the same, it seems such a waste... Distraction is control, and when you're thinking about somebody/something/anything 24/7, you're definately distracted.

Anyway, what I'm getting at here is it might be a living hell and we might be feeding negative hyperdimensional beings, but this whole relationship thing is a powerful learning experience that we can gain a lot from. I know that all my 'failed' attempts have taught me much. With a splash of masochism it can even be fun!

But...I was wondering, would any of you advocate the destruction, release or transformation of your feelings for another person in some way through sheer force of will? And if so, how do you do go about it? This interests me because it is like reprogramming yourself and could solve all internal problems, but I guess some people might think it is harmful or unnatural. For example, do you wish you have something but you can't have it? Simply stop wanting it! But how? Where do these feelings of attraction come from? I have never consciously made the decision to feel like I do for somebody, it just happens. But surely I _can_ choose to end them? Or atleast use some sort of mental catalyst to help speed up the time it takes to naturally work its way through my system. But if I try to suppress or hurry away my feelings, it takes longer for them to naturally cease and release. The only other option I can think of is transforming the feelings into something less self-obsessed and more unconditional, and not expecting, needing or wanting anything in return, and not becoming upset because it doesn't go exactly how I want, which is what I've been trying to do to get over my 'distraction'. I don't even try to manifest my own reality anymore because who am I to choose? I agree with what has been said on this ^above^ and I know it works, but I'd rather the will of the universe be mine, than force my will upon the universe, if that makes sense... I can still create my own 'internal' reality by how I react to the 'external' one. You don't really miss out anything anyway, because everything that never existed exists in non-existence! These are my immediate thoughts on the subject, I hope it helps/is relevant.

-T

Thanks for your incredible post !

A teacher once shared with me that the trick is to manifesting anything is to do just as you describe...gradually work yourself to the point where you can accomodate a greater and greater "belief" in the thing you wish to manifest....and the key he spoke of was:

"At the exact point where your belief switches over into 51% yes vs. 49% no about something, what you seek will begin to manifest."

So for instance if right now you are stuck in the vibration or belief that a soulmate relationship will never happen, and 80% of your belief is NO it can never happen, that means that only 20% of your energy is free and available to experience a good relationship. And that's not enough.

Through gathering good experiences like talking with friends, spending time with loving family members, or emailing Net pen pals who are of a like mind, you might be able to INCREASE your belief that a soulmate relationship is possible.  So maybe that belief percentage gradually shifts, and now 60% of your energy is invested in the belief that a soulmate relationship is impossible while 40% believes that it IS possible. You now have more momentum and leverage to start tipping the scale more towards the positive, because you're almost there.

So from there you'd work on accumulating events and feelings that help you to be at least 51% invested in the belief that a soulmate relationship is possible. And that's when cool things will start to manifest surrounding/supporting that positive belief.

The same technique is true when you wish to manifest anything.Focus on increasing your percentage of belief, shifting the majority of your vibration towards a positive belief about something. 

It works with money. Maybe it's hard to believe you're going to be a millionaire from where you're currently sitting, but is an extra 100$ or 1000$ that hard to manifest?

I've grown very good at manifesting $1000 or more when I play slot machines in Atlantic City or Reno.  I've won $1000 or more in one go on about four separate occasions. Last year I won about $1800. 

As I stood there in the casino in a positive, abundant, space, I realized how ABSTRACT money is. It's all just numbers or blips floating at you through the air. I had this eerie flashback to the Matrix movies and how the one guy sits up on the ship while the others enter the Matrix, and he's just looking at that steady stream of numbers which he is able to interpret as scenes, events, and locations because he has cracked the code.

EVERYTHING is just a stream of data or vibrations. To manifest something, we need to increase our capacity to RECEIVE the vibrations or data we seek. 

Shifting our belief more towards the positive anticipation of something manifesting instead of the negative perception of "impossibility" allows it to manifest.

And just being 51% positive about something vs. 49% negative can create a HUGE difference in the circumstances of your life. Then, as you get better at manifesting, the BIGGER stuff (more money, more health, more rewarding relationships) start to roll in, because you're accustomed to receiving good or positive vibrations.

LipstickMystic aka Jennifer

I totally agree with the idea of focusing upon how you will FEEL when you actualize a desire.  The challenge for me has always been that some things seem to be to far out from what I am experiencing in the moment, that it is really difficult to make the leap from one state to another.  Sometimes the gap is just too big to do it and still have a genuine feeling.

This book outlines a process whereby you take gradual steps in getting from here to there.

It begins with the awareness that, on a spiritual level, everything you ask for is granted instantaneously, and is held for you in a sort of spiritual escrow account, waiting for you to claim it.  How you claim it is by matching the vibration, or feeling, of experiencing your desire.

So let's say you would like to manifest your soulmate (or perhaps better a soulmate) to be your life partner.  But your life experience up until this point has only brought you disappointment and frustration.  It's really difficult to make yourself feel as if you have it, when everything you know indicates differently.  Rather than attempting to make the leap all at once, you can cut it up into smaller, more acceptable beliefs, that increasingly approach the feeling of manifestation.  The goal is to create within yourself greater and greater degrees of relief concerning the manifestation of your desire. 

DESIRE:  I desire to be in a committed relationship with my soulmate.

BELIEF:  Relationships have been so difficult for me. Nobody really understands me.  I just don't fit in with this world.  Maybe I was just meant to be alone. 

BELIEF:  I have found some moments of joy in my previous relationships, however fleeting they may have been.  There are people I have talked to that seem to understand where I am coming from.  Probably a lot of people feel the same sense of alienation as me, they just don't talk about it.  Nobody is really meant to be alone.

BELIEF:  With the right person, a relationship would be very easy and natural.  I am a good communicator, I just need to find somebody who is willing to take the time to listen to what I have to say.  After all, I am here in the world, so something about it must fit my beliefs and values.  Surely there is somebody out there for me.

BELIEF:  Relationships should be easy and natural; my past experiences have served me well to prepare for the arrival of the love of my life.  I know that I am a great person, and there are a lot of things I've discovered about myself that are really valuable.  I really have a lot to offer the world!  I'm excited to finally meet somebody who is ready to join me on this journey!

BELIEF:  The past is meaningless, all that matters is my intents and desires in this moment.  How great it will be to have a partner in life that understands me on a very deep level!  I know myself well enough now to be able to truly share myself with another person.  I deserve this relationship and I am ready!  Bring it on!

Get the idea??

Number one - I'd encourage people to focus on the emotional/spiritual QUALITIES they'd like to attract in a partner, if they're setting intentions surrounding a relationship.  That one can be really helpful.  You'll often find that that "ideal" partner doesn't fit the "external package" (which can be the result of lifelong societal programming, anyway) that you have preprogrammed in your head. 

But if you focus on the energy qualities, the personal qualities, the spiritual awareness, the psychic capabilities that you'd like to discover in that partner, that can really allow your intentions to manifest perfectly.

So be flexible on the age thing, the height thing, the looks thing, the race thing, etc.  Those things have no importance whatsoever, anyway.  Focus on the way you'd like to FEEL with this partner, the energies you want to be able to play with and experience with that person, the lightness, the joy, the beauty of that.  It's more of a 4-D way of manifesting a great partner.

Then you can have TONS OF FUN when that person shows up! I've been blessed to experience allmost eight years of fun now with my partner, and the fun just keeps taking on more levels of multidimensionality and miraculousness. (If that's a word! And he turned out to be pretty on the outside as well as the inside, which was a surprise bonus.

Also - be prepared that there can be a lot of shadow stuff coming around to challenge you in the beginning as a couple.  Stuff from each of your pasts, stuff from your families of origin, astral negs trying to keep you apart, all manner of goop.  So it's important to be able to step into spiritual warrior mode and learn how to protect yourself, clear out your sphere of influence as as couple, and consecrate the energy you are creating as a team. Learn how to stop blaming your partner and start looking at the energy that is coming at you, trying to throw you off course. Learn how to blaze the love of a thousand suns from your heart to burn away the psychic interference. When you can summon that up on command, the negs start to back off.  They realize they can't separate you or drive a wedge between you.

I like to use the WonderTwins as my role model. Remember the WonderTwins? They were featured on the cheesy SuperFriends cartoon in the 70's. You had traditional superheroes on it like Wonder Woman, Aquaman, etc., and then there were the WonderTwins. They could do cool things together and would always say, "Wonder Twin powers, activate!" before manifesting cool things. 

You and your partner will need to develop certain survival and self-clearing/psychic protection talents together.  It helps if you are both inclined towards practicing and studying different healing modalities, especially those that allow you to obtain psychically derived information (so you can tune in together and discern what is really going on in a given situation.)  And being able to move energy around via "magical work," shamanic journeying, power prayer, hands-on energy work, and/or martial arts are also really important skills.

There are so many people like this out there. Don't live in a poverty of possibility.  I've been privileged to meet or connect with tens of thousands of seekers from all walks of life, people I wish I could gather together in one place so they could see they are NOT unique, they are NOT an anomaly, they are NOT alone.  Knowing this first-hand helped me to remain mellow when a spent a couple of years off the dating wagon and allowed myself to be detached and Zen about whether a relationship would happen or not. It was that willingness to happily be on my own, doing my own thing, while being fully engaged with life, that set up the right vibration for Mr. Right to turn up. 

Before Mr. Right could show up, I had to become Ms. Right.

Marianne Williamson used to teach a marvelous concept - maybe she still talks about this.  She said, if you want to find a soulmate, first make a list of the qualities you really crave in your partner, the things you really feel are essential. Visualize these energies and qualities really clearly.

Then, look at the list again, and WORK ON ATTAINING THESE QUALITIES WITHIN YOURSELF.

That's when, she said, you've set yourself on the path of meeting that wonderful person....when you YOURSELF are working to become that person. 

So internalizing that list and using it as a take-off point to inspire you to become a better, happier, and more highly vibrational person can be very good, too.

LipstickMystic aka Jennifer

I too think of meeting someone that I would be able to live with and be happy, and especially have that spiritual connection... etc.   But at this time I don't feel too bad, not having that someone with me now, especially since moving to 4D is such a difficult task, emotionally, physically, spiritually... etc, it does make it difficult, having a partner, no matter how you cut it.

I like Lyra's idea of asking, and even writing down exactly what you wish to have in another and then just let it go and not try to anticipate who will show up.   I DO think that will attract to you who you.... are really ready for.

I'm sure in the next 6 year's (or maybe after we go 4D), I'll easily meet that self-realized Pleiadian female....lol, and then of course live happily ever after.    But in real term's we DO have much coming in the near future that will  present us with many new opportunities, not to mention eventually meeting advanced civilization's.   Kind of makes you wonder where all that will take us?    And of course, if I remember correctly, the C's said that we'll go through a "rejuvination" and maybe even youth ourselves, so like you could be 25 for way long time...lol.   Which of course, will change much about all these ideas,... yet again.

So for everyone still looking.... the future is bright, thing's are getting better, 4D is the place to be.....!

Did internal forces murder President Kennedy, Martin Luther King, Robert Kennedy, John Lennon and all the other people who stood in the way of the New World Order? Was it all in their minds? Were their bullet wounds a figment of their own imaginations? I don't think so. But thanks for the advice.

It wasn't "advice" so much as a new concept for you.  I do think it would be good for you to stop seeing yourself as the innocent victim of evil forces.   This, to me, is the main risk of conspiracist thought. 
If one does not have a firm grounding in spirituality and metaphysics, it can exacerbate the mindset of victimhood. 

Here's more for you to chew on, or not, from "The Individual And The Nature of Mass Events"  (a Seth book): 

This all ties in with the self-responsibility I keep talking about on this board,  and which is essential if we are to rise to the challenge of vibrating higher, into a new, safe,  probable world, where we no longer perceive ourselves as being at the mercy of any outside forces.

From The Book Of Secrets: 

If you chew on  this, palomine,  perhaps it will at least take your mind off your troubles...