Just today I was looking in the mirror when I noticed a small bright spot in my hair. I frowned as I leaned in closer to get a look at what I thought would be a bit of gray/white hair. I'm only 24 so I don't really expect any gray hair this early. However I was totally shocked when I saw that the hair was actually golden yellow. It was just, weird seeing this. My hair is very dark brown, naturally, and there is no blonde hair in my family at all. What to make of it? I don't know, maybe just some freak occurence that will go away in a couple weeks. Just thought I'd throw it out there, anyway.

I love both of you as human beings and also because we are fighting the same cause.  So now I am asking you to hush (Please let it go!) for we have better and more important things to consider.

Regards,

Lee

Blunt and to the point if done with finess is fine. But can easily turn to the fundementalistical point of view that one is the only person who can be right. What is percieved as the point might not be the whole point, and even a baseball bat is a blunt object yet can do harm. 

I mentioned that my hair is blond/brown/orange in the very first post, which means that i am partially nordic, which also means that it could mean i am coming more to terms with who i am. If one would explain every single concept down to the basic level, even to the level of what different words mean it would take tremendous amounts of time, so i choose a level at which i communicate that best fits with the people i desire to communicate. One can never communicate in a way that everyone understands, there will always be discord. That is also what i try to point out, that to call my different opinion on how your behavior effects people lying is the style of communication i mean. Certainly your power of thought and problemsolving skills are good i'll admit that. But if you fail to understand what i meant and take it as lying, is it any different than if i fail to understand what you mean and take it as confrontative. That is what i desire to point out. That simply because it feels to you that you are not agressive or hostile, it might not feel that way to everyone you come in contact with.

You only prove that which you set out to prove, that you are not "unneccesarily agressive" the way you percieve it. Which is very much true. That is why i cant say you absoutely must do something or something else, i only say, that with all due respect i would suggest that you do something if you wish to avoid unneccesary confrontation.

If you have ever gone to a bar in finland you would know what i mean by aggressive. A girl hit another girl, then threw her drink on the waiter and then got tackled to the floor and the bouncer then grabbed her neck in a hold and carried her and threw her out the door after which the girl walked a few meters away and start threwing bottles at the bar. Not to mention several barfights in the same day that i didnt see, in a bar with around 50 people (small) even my friends said it was an unusually agressive night.

So i would once again heartly recommend that you try to avoid making rash decicions of my personality or psyche based on a few picks. As i dont even imagine that i know who you are or why you decide to post as you. But what i said isnt mean to be, (as there is no such thing), an absolute truth on how to act, it is only meant as my observation on if you would desire, you could change your behavior so that it wouldnt cause agitation to me. Nothing more as such.

Also as you said " I think I'll take pretty much anything you say from here on out with a grain of salt!   Seriously. " It, to me, seems that you attack the messanger not the message.

So in closing i would suggest that if this confrontation is unsolvable as it appears, we should just for the sake of minimizing possible energy waste and conflict just agree that neither of us responds in anyway to anything posted by the other person? Unless ofcourse absolutely critical for the conversation? So we can just agree to disagree?

-Aki

As any member can do, I clicked on your name and then seleted "Show All Posts."

This brought up 31 threads that you've participated in, or started, here at Noble Realms.

Of those 31 threads, I've only addressed you, Hkelukka directly in two. 

Here, where I was CLEARLY agreeing with you, in a very enthusiastic way:  http://forum.noblerealms.org/viewtopic.php?id=2538

And here: http://forum.noblerealms.org/viewtopic.php?id=2543  where I was offering up feedback...but definitely NOT in a "hostile" or "aggressive" way.  Not even close.

So, for you to make a claim like that is, well, you know....lying. 

In fact, in the second thread, "Incident at a bar", you wrote:

The fact that you would claim that I've been "aggressive" to you in several posts in the past...when I haven't, as I just proved.......calls into question the entire way you perceive things in general.  Were the people in this bar really aggressive, as you claim?  Or is that just your skewed perception?  It seems to me that your perception and intuition with people is waaaaay off.    I think I'll take pretty much anything you say from here on out with a grain of salt!   Seriously. 

Anyway, now, back to our regularly scheduled Mercury Retrograde.

Also, lyra, if i may. I would advice you

"Advise me"...or else what??      !  "Aggressive" and "hostile"?   Hmm.  Well, it's blunt, and to the point, but hostile?   Hostile, Hkelukka, would be if I cussed you out, called you a moron, and then insulted your mother on top of it.    But questioning your blond hair = spiritual advancement theory is not hostile.  It's just bluntly questioning where / how that correlation came about.   

It would also help matters if you could have mentioned this right from the getgo:   

"From what i have read bright haircolors, bright blond being one of them but also if you are born with brown hair it is also bright brown-ness " .........."It could also mean that if my genetic structure is of the nordic type, which seems very likely. That for my hair to turn golden could signify that i am getting closer to my own potential (DNA). "   

That better explains your position on the matter, and how you view this topic.  Instead, that was left out.  Maybe next time you could add more details to better explain your theory/position, so people can better understand where you're coming from.  It alleviates confusion...

(hmm...is this a mercury retrograde thing??)

Most of the spiritual healers i've talked with seem to correalte this, one example would be barbara ann brennan's book hands of light. It isnt related to this directly but as a person gets older the energy feed to their lower chakras is usually decreased significantly while higher chakras is increased, dosnt mean they understand anything more clearly as that isnt a function of chakra "power" alone, yet it helps. And old people generally have their hair going more white, and as i was born with a brown/yellow/orange hair it is quite unusual for me to start changing my haircolor. Tho it isnt impossible.

Also, lyra, if i may. I would advice you to be a little less agressive in your postings because for a few times now you have posted a response to something i said in a way that is unnecceserily "hostile."

For example, when i said "probably goes to prove something" i meant exactly what i said. Something, could just as easily be that i am exposed to UV radiation too much (high intensity LCD monitor for example). Or that i have eaten some bad food and fudged up my internal chemical balance which then makes my hair color turn.

As i live in a fairly shamanistical family and overall culture i am aware of the fact that haircolor does often change abrutly with internal changes. Intense stress for example can actually make your hair turn completely white over night. So why would one assume that haircolor cant be a significant factor.

It could also mean that if my genetic structure is of the nordic type, which seems very likely. That for my hair to turn golden could signify that i am getting closer to my own potential (DNA). And who is to say that blond hair isnt supreme in spirituality over other. I certainly dont believe that it is but can you prove it is or isnt?

I know i cant prove so i wrote here to ask if anyone does have information on it, plus ofcourse to feel happy to share any changes that happen because as i am a part of this group it effects this group. If people arnt interested they wont post, quite simple.

And that is what i meant when i said "probably goes to prove something". That it is a symptom of something, what, i dont know. That is why i would advice calm and self reflection when you respond because you made a hasty assumption that i said it in a smug way to mean it means i'm superior to everyone, which wasnt what i mean because i dont believe superiority to be possible.

As studies that i have read indicate that people get the emotion of the writer wrong 50% of the time in online communications it always warrants caution and patience when posting anything.

Oh, and imhotep. I did a complete bloodwork on myself around 2-3 weeks ago and my blood values are within the norms and they didnt find anything out of the ordinary so it could be some chemical that dosnt show on normal tests that is doing it but that would be prohibitavly difficult to find.

Thanks for all the feedback tho =)

From,

http://www.thetech.org/genetics/news.php?id=15

And from,

http://www.rmpd.org.uk/abstracts/photom … ations.htm

I am not trying to scare you but seeing a doctor may not be a bad idea.  Also, look at your surroundings and see if there is the possibility of ultraviolet radiation exposure (it does not have to be sun generated if you know what I mean).  I do not think hair color changes are related to enlightment.

Regards,

Lee

Not to mention, that my hair keeps getting more "white" and glimmering, it dosnt seem to turn "old man white" but sort of glimmering yellow strange. Probably goes to proove something

Prove what, exactly?

I don't know....just curious where you're going with all of this...    Although we know because earlier you said:  "So i feel this could indicate that i am reaching something spiritually because my hair is turning golden..."

And why would golden, "glimmering yellow" hair signify that you're spiritually advancing?

I don't know, sounds to me like that has shades of the Aryan super master race written all over it, like those with blond/yellow "glimmering" hair are more advanced then everybody else who doesn't have that hair color.

(and no, I'm not jealous in case anybody is thinking that - I was born blonde.)

Don't mean to throw a wrench in the works, but I couldn't help but notice the strange logic in all of this.  Why is it that humans have this programming in the collective unconscious that blonde is better, more superior, more "spiritually advanced" ?    What, because some 4th density Nordics may have come down out of the sky eons ago and knocked the socks off of the brunette indiginous people?  So now we've got it in the collective unconscious that blond indicates something special, divine, advanced, and superior?

I don't know.  Makes you wonder.

And I'll leave off by pointing out that the people I've met over the years who were what I consider to be "spiritually advanced", with amazing knowledge, insight and psychic abilities...............almost none were blond(e).